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@bbaXJ. I feel for you guys and hope you can find peace with your loss. Sincerely................
Now with that said, what a bunch of whiney ass scrooges you guys are! I love the holidays. Everything from shopping to snow, fire in the fireplace, football, music, to Christmas lights to gatherings. I don't let any of the bullshit bother me. Like Sean, I would rather host the party, even with the work because I get to control it. I make sure the football game is on the TV. Go other places and it may not be.
Now, for those with young kids, I hear you. When my kids were young we had 2 stops on Christmas eve, and another 2-3 on Christmas day. My wife's grandma had this super small house and the guys ended up in the garage standing around a space heater. We would be gone for 12 hours and my kids never got to play with their toys. I HATED THAT! So, that's when we started staying home. The message was "our house is open and there is a standing invite" but we stayed home. That was the game changer. It pissed some people off but oh well.
So quit your whining and enjoy the holiday!
Cheers! 🍸🍹🍻🍺🥂🍗🍖🥧🍰⛄❄❄❄🎅🤶