No doubt it's real, but we're talking a big difference between those who claim it's being PUSHED and it being accepted. Do I think it's gone way too far into forced acceptance? Absolutely. Some kids are just weird and we shouldn't necessarily be persecuting them for it, but not everything should be accepted for fear of being labeled a bigot or homophobe or xenophobe or whatever other label they came up with today either. We've absolutely tipped the scales too far in that direction, but that's still not the same as indoctrinating, pushing, or "grooming". But guess what, there are still parents at home who should be handling it themselves if their kids are being unreasonable. I remember a lot of weird ass kids in high school(1998-2002), this isn't anything new. Now there are just more labels and it's talked about more thanks to an entire world of information immediately available at our fingertips. Some of it is progress for things like mental health and kids who are different, some of it is absolute insanity.
Counterpoint to that is the big sticking point here though; pushing kids that are literally not able to mentally understand what they are doing to do them, is like throwing gas on a fire and wondering why the flames are getting bigger. Letting a kid experiment and figure themselves out is a whole lot different than latching onto the first sign of gender confusion, homosexuality, etc and running with it and never looking back. There's a huge grey area there that neither side talks about much.
I don't care about gender roles, that's a thing of the past IMO. My 7 year old son likes to paint his nails sometimes because some of the rockstars he likes did it. I'm not worried about that at all, but I'm also not one of those crazies who's gonna start buying him dresses and grooming him to turn into a girl either. He's a kid doing kid stuff. When I was a kid I enjoyed going to craft shows with my mom, which then led to a period where I made cool bracelets and necklaces for fun. Pretty girly, right? Doesn't mean my mom tried to turn me into a girl or convince me I was gay. Now I build Jeeps and split firewood and shoot guns and live in a log cabin and bang my hot biologically and permanently female wife.
Let kids be kids, if a boy wants to play with dolls or a kitchen set who freaking cares? Only a man who's not secure with his own sexuality would be bent out of shape about that IMO. But a parent also shouldn't try and steer them into one of those "other" sexualities or genders or whatever before they're old enough to understand it themselves. Support a kid who's figuring it out? Sure, but not steer them when they don't understand it themselves. Kids are still figuring themselves out WELL into the teenage years. No parent should be pushing them into deciding who they are or who they love or what they identify as before that. Try and help them understand and steer themselves sure, but don't convince your 12 year old to chop their dick off because then they might turn into a very confused, regrettful, and trapped 14 year old. I know that's an extreme example, but that seems to be where these conversations head. Don't make temporary phases become lifelong decisions.