Now dont go scaring the shit out of him its hard enough letting someone else be responsible for you child while your gone. oke:

I misunderstood what he said.... I get it now.

That's why I commented that the cost difference of the "better one" we go to was WELL worth it.

 

Now dont go scaring the shit out of him its hard enough letting someone else be responsible for you child while your gone. oke:

Punishment time at this budget daycare involved kids getting there mouths taped shut and locked in a closet for 15, 20, 30 minutes. Depending on the offense, But when your little guy has a snotty nose and passes out do to lack of oxygen it does not take long for permanent damage to take place.




RBB:usa:

 

Punishment time at this budget daycare involved kids getting there mouths taped shut and locked in a closet for 15, 20, 30 minutes. Depending on the offense, But when your little guy has a snotty nose and passes out do to lack of oxygen it does not take long for permanent damage to take place.




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I assume this daycare was not registered with the state?! How can this even be possible?!

 

I assume this daycare was not registered with the state?! How can this even be possible?!

Unlicensed daycares are super common.

There's people out there working 13 dollar an hour jobs, they drop their kid off with the lady down the street for 15 bucks a day or whatever.

Most people are decent, some aren't. Which sucks.

 

It was and she lost her license, she was not insured and ended up with a slap on the wrist and some probation. No Jail time, No real assets, and No real consequences.


Meanwhile my buddy has a fucked up kid that will never be right


Just be careful


RBB

 

Just took a $7500 shit.

 

I assume this daycare was not registered with the state?! How can this even be possible?!

Even state registered day care places can be run by people that are in it for the money and not so much for the kids they are caring for.
See if the place you are thinking about has cameras for you to view while at work. you know to keep an eye on the little one and the workers to see how they interact with the kids.

 

Just took a $7500 shit.

Did it hurt? Sounds painful

 

Did it hurt? Sounds painful

First time using my new septic field.

 

Hopefully it was after 15lbs of taco bell, lol. Gotta make that inaugural dump worth it.

 

STILL looking for a ride to Memphis, Mi. Paying cash too!
In all fairness, I had a friend going from traverse city, at the exact time we were unloading the truck.
Another friend was in, then his mom died.
This is crazy.

 

What do you mean? Financially fucked up for life?

That is part of reason we have decided to only have 1, and the fact that I'm getting old. :teehee:

Greg Henderson @ Unofficial Use Only is an example... damn daycare shook the shit out if his kid. Liam is lucky he's alive. I don't want to scare you, but it does happen. If you get a bad vibe at a place move on. We passed on an in home care for our daughter and when my wife called her to tell her we were going elsewhere she flipped out and snapped at us. So happy to have dodged that bullet.

My friend in Minneapolis pays $1800/month for one child.

We have always been around the $1000/month mark. Now that my daughter is in pre-care at a public school it's like $800 or so. That said, I don't think she gets near the attention/discipline/etc that she got in private care.

 

Greg Henderson @ Unofficial Use Only is an example... damn daycare shook the shit out if his kid. Liam is lucky he's alive. I don't want to scare you, but it does happen. If you get a bad vibe at a place move on. We passed on an in home care for our daughter and when my wife called her to tell her we were going elsewhere she flipped out and snapped at us. So happy to have dodged that bullet.

My friend in Minneapolis pays $1800/month for one child.

We have always been around the $1000/month mark. Now that my daughter is in pre-care at a public school it's like $800 or so. That said, I don't think she gets near the attention/discipline/etc that she got in private care.

This is why we are going to try and stay where we're at until he is ready for kindergarten.

 

Greg Henderson @ Unofficial Use Only is an example... damn daycare shook the shit out if his kid. Liam is lucky he's alive. I don't want to scare you, but it does happen. If you get a bad vibe at a place move on. We passed on an in home care for our daughter and when my wife called her to tell her we were going elsewhere she flipped out and snapped at us. So happy to have dodged that bullet.

My friend in Minneapolis pays $1800/month for one child.

We have always been around the $1000/month mark. Now that my daughter is in pre-care at a public school it's like $800 or so. That said, I don't think she gets near the attention/discipline/etc that she got in private care.

First off, damn. That's one of those "I wouldn't hurt her, but accidents happen" type situations if it was my kid.


Second. I'm paying about $1200 a month for daycare on my two. I can understand the not moving for daycare. I'm looking at another job and it would mean my daycare adds another 40 miles round trip to my commute because we'd want to keep the one we got.

 

This is why we are going to try and stay where we're at until he is ready for kindergarten.

Don't get me wrong, it has been great for socialization, my son stayed in the private care longer, and I think that is a big part of why he is a hermit at 8 years old. He is not near as social or outgoing. That daycare kind of coddled him because he was their favorite and it wasn't hidden well.

First off, damn. That's one of those "I wouldn't hurt her, but accidents happen" type situations if it was my kid.


Second. I'm paying about $1200 a month for daycare on my two. I can understand the not moving for daycare. I'm looking at another job and it would mean my daycare adds another 40 miles round trip to my commute because we'd want to keep the one we got.

Worst part of it is security camera footage existed and was deleted. No one was ever brought up on charges because every person in that daycare claimed they didn't know who did it, or was in that room. Greg had to be talked off the ledge from doing anything.

 

Don't get me wrong, it has been great for socialization, my son stayed in the private care longer, and I think that is a big part of why he is a hermit at 8 years old. He is not near as social or outgoing. That daycare kind of coddled him because he was their favorite and it wasn't hidden well.

This is a good point. They openly tell my wife and I this about our son, even in front of the other children. What you are saying is certainly something to think about.

 

My wife did not go back to work until both of my kids were in school full time.

 

My wife did not go back to work until both of my kids were in school full time.

My wife and I talked about it, but she takes home way more than what it takes to pay for the kids daycare. If that were to ever invert she would stay home. At this point we'd lose money by her staying home.

 

My wife did not go back to work until both of my kids were in school full time.

My wife and I talked about it, but she takes home way more than what it takes to pay for the kids daycare. If that were to ever invert she would stay home. At this point we'd lose money by her staying home.

Yep. Same here. $275 x 52 = $14,300. My wife makes a lot more than this. IF we had a second child and had to pay double this, then the juice might not be worth the squeeze...

 

That is why our kids are 4.5 years apart. I couldn't afford two in daycare at once, my boy does pre and after care, but its like $12 through his school, and his sister is with him.

Had I not got the job I have when I did, we may not have had kids at all.