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Old June 12th, 2008, 10:23 AM   #21
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I just made plans to get up north with some friends to do some trail riding picked 2 weekends in july then when everything was final i told the gf to see if she wanted to tag along.... then she rattled off 2 names i barely remember and says we have weddings to go to both those weekends. might as well sell my jeep because i cant have a hobbie and a girl at the same time..

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Sell said girlfriend for money buy parts for the jeep.:tonka:Simple question simple answer.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 10:30 AM   #22
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Go to the first wedding, get drunk and hit on one of the bridemaids, take that bridesmaid on the trip north instead of going to the 2nd wedding. That way, you get drunk for free and get a new girlfreind..win win
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Old June 12th, 2008, 10:52 AM   #23
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same thing happened to me on the OSTC weekend, the GF has a wedding sunday. i ask what time she says well on her moms callender it says 3 pm. i ask be there or leave at 3. her- well most of the time she writes what time we need to leave. i say well you better ask and make sure. she says no and that we will be fine. i then tell her well i will be home from up north at 1:30, all is good.

about noon on the day of the wedding i get a call while under the jeep scraping mud from my rims.
she says babe we got a problem. we need to leave around 1:30.

at that point shes all pissed at me and starts yelling about that wouldnt have happend if i didnt go. i just let her know that shes the one who fucked up by not dubble checking the time. and the only person she should be mad at is herself.
then said ill see you at 1:30

to make a long story short she relised she fucked up because she knew my plans and told me when i needed to leave and i planed around her, and she fucked up.


this plan sounds right to me

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she is just now informing you of an invitation that was sent probably a couple months ago?

seriously it sounds like a lack of communication between both of you. she didn't inform you of pending plans nor did you of your intentions. split the difference and go to one wedding and then go wheeling the other weekend.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 10:54 AM   #24
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he should just rape her.
No that's a bad idea too. Turns out, they call the cops if they're jaw isn't broken.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 10:55 AM   #25
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compromise 1 weekend go to a wedding, the other weekend go wheeling. i hate when weddings ruin weekends. I especially hate the people who get married over Memorial or Labor day, they screw up the whole weekend!
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Old June 12th, 2008, 11:06 AM   #26
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Grow a set of balls.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 11:27 AM   #27
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Old June 12th, 2008, 11:43 AM   #28
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No, don't get rid of the rig get of the girlfriend. If you truely didn't know about these plans sooner. Like others have said there are plenty of girls out there. Most important find one that you are compatable with.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 11:51 AM   #29
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Just tell her "the marriages arent going to last any ways". That might work.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 11:53 AM   #30
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Man I hate weddings. But yeah dude, comes with the territory of having a GF/Wife.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 12:20 PM   #31
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Thats why you have 3 girlfriends... You ask each one what there plans are for the weekend.. Then take the one's who are free.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 12:42 PM   #32
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well if ur up ther around july 29- aug 2nd leme know
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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:26 PM   #33
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unless she's related to these people, tell her your going up north. weddings suck. wheeling does not.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:30 PM   #34
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Finding the right Jeep for you is always harder than finding the right girl for you.
Actually I don't know what advice to give other than what has been said, you should have told her your plans, but she didn't tell you hers so it weighs in.
Do these weddings last a whole weekend or just a day? Why not just go to the wedding and the next day go wheeling? Granted your Saturday and Sunday are both free.
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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:46 PM   #35
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:cry: I can't handle a relationship :cry:
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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:47 PM   #36
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Dave....need help?

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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:49 PM   #37
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Dave....need help?

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yes actually, my wife wants me to come home after work instead of everything I want to do, should I divorce?

HALP!!!!!!!!!


update: she also wants me to take out the garbage on monday nights, i mean.. COME AWN!!!

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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:51 PM   #38
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This should be the deciding factor...divorce is much worse than being a little lonely on the weekends.

Go jeeping and deal with her when you get back. If she can't handle you two doing your own thing now and then, don't marry her, cuz it'll only get worse.

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yes actually, my wife wants me to come home after work instead of everything I want to do, should I divorce?

HALP!!!!!!!!!
OMGosh Dave, what a problem. We are on this planet to think of ourselves. Sometimes the evil power of love takes over. You need not forget where your focus should lie.....within yourself.

Good luck my friend.

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Old June 12th, 2008, 01:56 PM   #40
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OMGosh Dave, what a problem. We are on this planet to think of ourselves. Sometimes the evil power of love takes over. You need not forget where your focus should lie.....within yourself.

Good luck my friend.

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I just posted an update.

Guys, if you have one of these female types in your life, bail now.
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