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Old April 6th, 2006, 04:57 PM   #61
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Its "General Tso"...


...and I just got yelled at by Shift via PM for being a jerk in this thread.

I can see this topic has gone a stray, but what do you expect from a bunch of testosterone driven nuts.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 05:52 PM   #62
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Its "General Tso"...


...and I just got yelled at by Shift via PM for being a jerk in this thread.
I didn't yell at you! I made a comment that you were being harsh. :p
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Old April 6th, 2006, 06:50 PM   #63
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Only if he was as cute as you Cube!!
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Old April 6th, 2006, 07:30 PM   #64
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Theres been a couple mentions of " interest " Sex is hardly complicated , unless it is made complicated by a dissinterested party .

If a woman is lousy in bed its becuase she is staring at the cieling thinking , hmmm that needs to be painted instead of working on the current project .

another mention of woman who are not interested in pleasing you in bed dont care if they please you at all . Much truth there , its all about them .

ALL the married men say they never get layed , fact is married men ( in a average relationship ) are getting more then any single guy . It dont seem like it becuase with time the interest level falls .

You eat steak every night , ya get tired of steak . I dont give a shit how good it is .

Dream all you want but marriage fights nature , when you fight nature you have a 65% dovorce rate . It is what it is . It becomes a matter of what you want most , great sex and freedom , or bad sex , maybe no sex and a life partner . You dont get your cake and eat it too :gman:
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Old April 6th, 2006, 07:36 PM   #65
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ALL the married men say they never get layed , fact is married men ( in a average relationship ) are getting more then any single guy .
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Old April 6th, 2006, 07:44 PM   #66
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I might get the "you're full of shit" line on this, but hell...

I wouldn't mind someone that's at least interested, likes to have some fun, but to be perfectly honest... sex isn't all that important.

I mean, I have things I want to DO with my free time. Not spend the day in bed. There's the whole point of getting to know and spend time with the "love of your life" and typically I've found that works better outside of bed. If she's a bad lay, she'll learn. If she's everything else I want, I'm willin' to make compromises.


If she's not interested in sex at all... she'll get annoyed with me reeeal quick. :p
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Old April 6th, 2006, 09:31 PM   #67
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If they arent willing to make sure that you are happy in the most intimate way, then they probably dont care about your feelings that much in general.
I think thats the key. I wouldn't "not" marry someone I was in love with just because she lacked the skills and/or ability to knock my socks off every time we got in the sack,especially if she brings joy to my life other ways (sexual or otherwise) but if the reason she was a "bad lay" was that she didn't care enough about me and my feelings to try to make me happy I don't see any reason to marry her.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 09:45 PM   #68
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In all honesty if some women would do stretching exercises to gain flexibility this thread would not be necessary :tonka:


Or be willing to learn to compensate in other ways.


To answer your question, probably not. I agree with the test drive theory.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 10:02 PM   #69
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Well, if I were going by this "good lay" method, I may still be looking.

I waited until I got married to have sex.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 10:03 PM   #70
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I waited until I got married to have sex.
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I think it is sickening to think that men would look at a woman, and just rate her on a level of how many times, or how good she is in bed.

That is so disturbing. Women should be loved for their minds, not their bodies.
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I think it is sickening to think that men would look at a woman, and just rate her on a level of how many times, or how good she is in bed.

That is so disturbing. Women should be loved for their minds, not their bodies.

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I think it is sickening to think that men would look at a woman, and just rate her on a level of how many times, or how good she is in bed.

That is so disturbing. Women should be loved for their minds, not their bodies.





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Old April 6th, 2006, 10:13 PM   #73
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As long as she is rich and can pay for all the hookers I say why not.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 10:58 PM   #74
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I think it is sickening to think that men would look at a woman, and just rate her on a level of how many times, or how good she is in bed.

That is so disturbing. Women should be loved for their minds, not their bodies.
Well virgin larry thats what we ARE talking about , there MINDS . You dont think good sex comes from the body do you ! Its about attitude , thus we are talking about there minds VIRGIN LARRY .

It would be great if that nick name stuck buster
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Thats when you start looking into the foreign cars...
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Old April 7th, 2006, 09:24 AM   #76
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Theres been a couple mentions of " interest " Sex is hardly complicated , unless it is made complicated by a dissinterested party .

If a woman is lousy in bed its becuase she is staring at the cieling thinking , hmmm that needs to be painted instead of working on the current project .

another mention of woman who are not interested in pleasing you in bed dont care if they please you at all . Much truth there , its all about them .

ALL the married men say they never get layed , fact is married men ( in a average relationship ) are getting more then any single guy . It dont seem like it becuase with time the interest level falls .

You eat steak every night , ya get tired of steak . I dont give a shit how good it is .

Dream all you want but marriage fights nature , when you fight nature you have a 65% dovorce rate . It is what it is . It becomes a matter of what you want most , great sex and freedom , or bad sex , maybe no sex and a life partner . You dont get your cake and eat it too :gman:
You know, it isn't only woman who can be a 'bad lay'. Not that I have anything to complain about personally, but I have a few friends who complain about their spouses and sex... A LOT more than their husbands complain to Chris about their wives.

To be honest, in 'our' generation, guys started out typically focused on getting laid than being 'good' in bed. Its like they are so excited that they are actually getting laid, they have no concept of the 'other' person's pleasure in the act. Hence why woman are staring at the ceiling thinking it needs to be painted. Its no different than anything else, you need to communicate and be willing to listen. You know, the two things that all guys are great at! :tonka:

Many of JFK's mistresses have complained how he was like that. That is where the term 'making love like a democrat' came from. :tonka:
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Hmmm, something about when old people start replying to this thread that just killed it for me
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Hmmm, something about when old people start replying to this thread that just killed it for me
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I wish just the spouse wouldn't post in sexual topics.

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Hmmm, something about when old people start replying to this thread that just killed it for me

well unfortunately, it's the young people that say that and they could get the most use out of learning from the elders.

but if you young whipper snappers need to go out and get a nut. than so be it.

I'm one of the few men that has treated sex as a gift that two people share rather than a goal.

and that has been since the very first time.
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I wish just the spouse wouldn't post in sexual topics.

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