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Old April 5th, 2006, 06:39 PM   #21
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Unless she was crying. That would be bad.
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Old April 5th, 2006, 06:52 PM   #22
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I would prefer not to do it, but I don't think it would matter to me much.
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Old April 5th, 2006, 07:02 PM   #23
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That would depend on how much money she has.
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Old April 5th, 2006, 07:06 PM   #24
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haha no, I give women the best 12 seconds of there lives(thats twice tho)
hahahah we submitted that for a "best pick up line contest" at the Mellow Mushroom in Savannah last year, I was told it took honorable mention or some shit like that...

"May I interest you in the best 2 inches and 20 seconds of your life?"

yeehaw

o yea as for the original question, hell yea, learned from my "rents" if it aint working in the bedroom it aint working anywhere else...

gotta have a good one..

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Old April 5th, 2006, 08:05 PM   #25
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lol true. The question should be if your a guy .... do you mind if the girl just lays there or has any skillz at all or is even trying. Good versus better. Nice point monkey evil. I just want the girl to want it so i am not scared if we got married she would becoming down with "headaches" all the time. If she was into it i would not worry so much. Even bad sex is pretty good for guys though
I know ill bring trouble for postin this but...... its

kinda funny you should mention the head ache thing...because some of my men in the past always pulled the...I work hard during the day shit....or iI am too tired....and then there was me....who thought d@mn I gotta be real tired to not want to at least try to get it on. so don't go blaiming in all on the ladies...out of all my gal friends ... we all want it. we just choose not to go druling around like pigs, and allow it to consume our mind. i wont lie i think about it quite frequently...someone would be lieing if they say they didn't its only natural. just my experience ..... about the marry part i am not at the stage .. and although sex is great i also want a person with a good character/personality....you have to live with the person not just do them all the time. and if they know what they are doing...it wont matter, size and all that other stuff...coming from the ladies prospective.

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Old April 5th, 2006, 08:48 PM   #26
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I know ill bring trouble for postin this but...... its

kinda funny you should mention the head ache thing...because some of my men in the past always pulled the...I work hard during the day shit....or iI am too tired....and then there was me....who thought d@mn I gotta be real tired to not want to at least try to get it on. so don't go blaiming in all on the ladies...out of all my gal friends ... we all want it. we just choose not to go druling around like pigs, and allow it to consume our mind. i wont lie i think about it quite frequently...someone would be lieing if they say they didn't its only natural. just my experience ..... about the marry part i am not at the stage .. and although sex is great i also want a person with a good character/personality....you have to live with the person not just do them all the time. and if they know what they are doing...it wont matter, size and all that other stuff...coming from the ladies prospective.

Fair enough but i think if you polled married guys (i am not married and havent had to suffer through to many nights where a girl friend used the headache excuse or tired or whatever) but i really get the impression married folks its the woman who gets headaches a few years into the marriage. It just a fear in the back of my mind a girlfriend will be cool as hell when we date, and be great in bed, get married and two years latter the head ache sex drought begins.

You know how scientists have made woman more horny, and increase sex drive in case studies? By giving them more testosterone !!!

... trust me most guys are not gonna be turning down sex. Those guys you spoke of were the exception not the norm. Especially if they are young. That was jsut the excuse. I dont know the real reason but trust me there are more guys running around paying for sex, and jumping through all sorts of hoops to get laid, than there are men turning down sex that is offered up to them. Mens perspective
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Old April 5th, 2006, 08:54 PM   #27
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good sex is great and bad sex still isnt that bad, so i guess the answer would be yup.
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Old April 5th, 2006, 08:58 PM   #28
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Fair enough but i think if you polled married guys (i am not married and havent had to suffer through to many nights where a girl friend used the headache excuse or tired or whatever) but i really get the impression married folks its the woman who gets headaches a few years into the marriage. It just a fear in the back of my mind a girlfriend will be cool as hell when we date, and be great in bed, get married and two years latter the head ache sex drought begins.

You know how scientists have made woman more horny, and increase sex drive in case studies? By giving them more testosterone !!!

... trust me most guys are not gonna be turning down sex. Those guys you spoke of were the exception not the norm. Especially if they are young. That was jsut the excuse. I dont know the real reason but trust me there are more guys running around paying for sex, and jumping through all sorts of hoops to get laid, than there are men turning down sex that is offered up to them. Mens perspective
DIDO fair enough....i think if you find the right gal...and she likes sex now shell like it then... after those few minority guys I met i thought the same thing...i was like sh!t is this how it is going to be if we do get married,,,because it was tossed around...got out of that. and honestly i am a beliver in sex only gets better when you got older seriously....so only more fun down the road....if i ever don't want it i would just tell them why not make up some excuse....but for sure i get where you are coming from ....
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Old April 5th, 2006, 09:42 PM   #29
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yeah, shell learn after a little while
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Old April 5th, 2006, 10:01 PM   #30
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probably, but it would depend on other factors. I think you have to look at the overall picture, if great sex is the only thing you're looking at it probably wouldn't work.

Let me ask this... If everything else about her was perfect, but she was a "bad lay" would you let that stop you from marrying her?

or... If she was pycho but great in bed would you marry her?
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Old April 5th, 2006, 10:02 PM   #31
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Old April 5th, 2006, 10:59 PM   #32
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bad sex is still sex. if you get bad sex alot then hey what ya got to lose.
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besides its still better than jerkin one
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Old April 6th, 2006, 06:30 AM   #34
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wouldn't really matter after you married her there is no more sex.......now would I date someone who was a bad lay......NO.
well maybe for a while, at least I would be getting some, bad sex is better than no sex..

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Old April 6th, 2006, 07:06 AM   #35
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You also can't just play mind games trying to "tell" the other person you want sex either. That shit don't fly most of the time. You want it? Then jump it. Don't just vanish off to the bedroom and hope the scent draws the prey in.
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Old April 6th, 2006, 08:09 AM   #36
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Sex is in the Mind. If your not into it maybe you need to look at what your doing to please yourself. Learning to do what your enjoying pleasure from. Each person has to be responsible for themselves when makeing love to some point. If you depend on the other to do it all for you Your being very selfish and you will never know what real pleasure is.

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Old April 6th, 2006, 08:54 AM   #37
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Hmmmm.... im not sure if i could. Then again im a dog and i cant see myself stuck with one girl for a long period of time.

Best line ive ever heard. Ive got a buddy that was a man whore and good at it. He had whores all over the place. "Rob" got with this chick "jennie" and fell in love. "Jennie" was a slut herself.

My buddy says.. "Way to go rob, you traded in all the whores for one super whore".
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Old April 6th, 2006, 10:34 AM   #38
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Answer to the question = No. Aside from younger women, I find ones that don't know what they are doing very irritating because it tells me they don't care enough to try. I wouldn't want to spend my life dealing with that kind of attitude.





[QUOTE=equineolove]after those few minority guys I met... QUOTE]

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I do know that there are some ladies out there who don't like it regardless of the quality, but most of the girls that I know are pretty much horn dogs. This includes my married friends (and at my age, most of my friends are married). I think the thing that turns a woman off is a guy who is only about getting his own pleasure. I think it is rarely that one person is bad at sex. I mean how can you be bad at it if you are into it? I also dont think it is hopefully something where you do the same thing over and over again. I personally stick to my answer of no. I think if someone isnt good, and they arent willing to learn what I like then I dont want to spend the rest of my life with them. If they arent willing to make sure that you are happy in the most intimate way, then they probably dont care about your feelings that much in general.
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If they arent willing to make sure that you are happy in the most intimate way, then they probably dont care about your feelings that much in general.

Yes. It is indicative of their philosophy towards many things in life.
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