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Old January 28th, 2008, 08:44 PM   #41
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right on ........keep in mind nothing matters in the end. Most of us will be dead in 50 years give or take.......

Doesn't matter who is wrong. You fix. Otherwise hold a fawking grudge till you die.
Exactly, and this problem is so stupid, fighting over watching tv.
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Old January 28th, 2008, 09:01 PM   #42
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1) get all parties in a room only the hot ones

2) Lock said door

3) make everyone get naked and screw each other

4) they'll forget about that incident and be totally different from that point on.
The family that plays together stays together?

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Old January 28th, 2008, 09:01 PM   #43
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ok, its going to be kinda long but please bear with me, because I need some outside opinions on this.

I am caught in the middle of a dispute between my wife and my brother. about a month ago, my family was over celebrating my daughters birthday. and my brother asked to see the remote control so he could check the score of the game. my wife has no interest in the game and has no desire to see it at all, well everyone was talking and so my brother kept the game on. well after a few minutes my wife takes the remote and turns th tv off while my brother and I were watching it. when my brother asked why she did that, she answered that she didn't want to see it. well my brother got pissed and left. and because he drove the rest of my family there everyone left about 20 minutes after they got there. I got pissed because I didn't want the situation to end that way, now both my wife won't call my brother to apologize because she thinks that he was wrong because she felt he just walked in to our house and just changed the channel, he won't call her because he feels she is wrong because she didn't make my family feel welcome in our house, now there is no relationship between my family and my wife, and it is tearing me apart. because no one will be the better person.

thanks for reading this any opinions would be greatly appreciated
I'am a little confused I didn't realize that three year olds were allowed to drive or be a wife.

I would say by the sound of things you should take both the children, your wife and your brother, and put them over your knee and give them the child spanking they need.

Feel free to show both of them this and maybe they will try to act like adults.















The Phantom has a thirteen year old that doesn't act that childish.
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Old January 28th, 2008, 09:10 PM   #44
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Is andy your brother?
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Old January 28th, 2008, 09:41 PM   #45
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Get your family on Jerry Springer's show, you sound like his target audience.


As posted before, good job all, ruined a little girl's birthday. Hope Mom and uncle are proud of themselves.
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Old January 28th, 2008, 10:06 PM   #46
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I actually Agree with the Wife. That house is just as much hers as it is yours. So....She has the right to turn off the TV so that you Socialize with your family. Football is not that important.

Also, it's very disrespectfully for your Brother to Treat your wife that way. You need to stand up for her and tell your brother what is up. Plus if you stand up for your wife You could possibly pull the right Heart string and end up lucky in the end.
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Old January 28th, 2008, 10:10 PM   #47
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Your wife is at fault.
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Old January 28th, 2008, 11:02 PM   #48
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Yes, and I appreciate all of the replies


I am blaming my wife more than my brother because (I know I didnt include this) but my wife seems to have an attitude anytime I invite my family over, she acts like she doesn't want them over, as far as the one who said everyone is wrong, I couldn't agree more, I have been saying that from the day it happened, this really isn't just about the tv, I think it was just the straw that broke the camels back. my wife can be very rude. even to me, but I put her in her place when she is.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 03:40 AM   #49
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tell your wife to stop being a cunt.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 09:48 AM   #50
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Can't believe no one has said it-

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Old January 29th, 2008, 10:15 AM   #51
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Get your Wife, Brother and Daughter all in the same room. So the two spoiled big kids can apologize to the little kid for Screwing up her Birthday. And giving her a memory she'll never forget.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 10:33 AM   #52
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I'm going sa different route with this. It's YOUR fault! You needed to man up and still do, to both your brother and your wife.

1) Brother wanted to "check score" you allowed, and should have turned it back to what it was on.
2) You allowed the TV to stay off when you should have stood up and put the wife in her place.

So this whole mess is your fault - man up and tell them that they will straighten out or get out, because a real man doesn't have time for bullshirt .
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Old January 29th, 2008, 10:41 AM   #53
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I'm sorry...but none of this advice is applicable until we see how hot your wife is....If she's hot enough, you do what she says...if not, well....
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Old January 29th, 2008, 10:45 AM   #54
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from an outsider point of view arguing over a TV or worse yet a game score is absolute
idiocy.

1. nobody should have been watching TV.

2. when you invite guests over you lose control of the TV

3. instead of clicking the TV off your wife should have A. asked what the score is, then said "now that you know the score can we please get back to the birthday party and you can check the score again in a bit"

4. if your brother didn't want to be there he should have stayed home.

5. whomever rode with him should have said "fine well find another way home"

6. you wife is not the undisputed ruler of the universe tell her to beam back down from the mother ship and live in reality.

7. if she doesn't like your family ignore hers.

8. there will be plenty of time to destroy the family ties when your daughter becomes a stripper because daddy felt the "game" was more important than her birthday. wake up, be a man and be a father.

9. I would avoid these altercations in the future as the trailer may come off it's blocks.

10. a better solution would have been to meet each other out by the bike racks after school.

11. your brothers shit don't stink, tell him he fucked up.

12. next time be proactive, not reactive.

13. ignore your wife and brother until they apologize.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 10:57 AM   #55
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I'm sorry...but none of this advice is applicable until we see how hot your wife is....If she's hot enough, you do what she says...if not, well....
That statement right there is why you can look forward to being pussy whipped all your life!
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Old January 29th, 2008, 11:06 AM   #56
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+1 for the wife being in the wrong. People watch TV all the time at family gatherings, especially sports. What are you supposed to do, sing happy birthday the entire time? You can still hold conversations, but sports is a nice filler when the conversation dries up.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 11:35 AM   #57
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I understand both sides and can see both views, but I'd say both are to blame.

When I have guests in my house, I don't play couch-commando and try to run the tv.

On the other hand, it was pretty immature of your bro to storm out and make it a much bigger deal than it really was..

He was a dick, and she wasn't showing much hospitality.

Side with your wife, but smooth it over with your brother. Very petty arguement..
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Old January 29th, 2008, 12:00 PM   #58
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it's the daughter's birthday. EVERYTHING else should be tied for last place until the cake has been eatten and the presents opened. your brother needs to learn the meaning and responsibility of the word "family". it was the birthday of his niece. he can find out the score anytime. if the score or the game were more important than his niece, he should have stayed home and watched it. i bet no one got an invitation to come over for a birthday party AND to watch the game.
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Old January 29th, 2008, 12:02 PM   #59
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The family that plays together stays together?

You are sicker than I thought, man


hahahahahahahahahaha I didn't say thats the route i would take in the least ROFL
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Old January 29th, 2008, 07:11 PM   #60
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Get your family on Jerry Springer's show, you sound like his target audience.


As posted before, good job all, ruined a little girl's birthday. Hope Mom and uncle are proud of themselves.
I think I figured out what the underlying prolbem is.. Your wife and brother are fukcin on the back side, and she was actually pissed he wasn't paying any attention to her, and the fact that he blew his nut in her nose the night before. And he was still pissed because she didn't give up the anal:tonka:
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