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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:55 AM   #101
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Technology is a really great means to fukc up a relationship these days....

You obviously don't trust her, you said you only checked her email after her grandma drove by but you hinted that you had checked other stuff of hers in the past. Wtf why don't you grow a pair and confront the bitch head on, either there's a legitimate excuse for everything in which you look like an ass hole for spying or she's been shady in which case you need to make some serious decisions about where your relationship is going. Seriously though cut out the emailing and Shit and do it face to face.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:59 PM   #102
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Technology is a really great means to fukc up a relationship these days....

You obviously don't trust her, you said you only checked her email after her grandma drove by but you hinted that you had checked other stuff of hers in the past. Wtf why don't you grow a pair and confront the bitch head on, either there's a legitimate excuse for everything in which you look like an ass hole for spying or she's been shady in which case you need to make some serious decisions about where your relationship is going. Seriously though cut out the emailing and Shit and do it face to face.
I find usually when I have squabbling with Mikey it is through instant messenger because you can't see emotions. I wouldn't have this kind of conversation with him online. That is saying a lot because I do most of my communications through emails and text messages. I also would never snoop. I just feel like if you need to snoop then you should really be rethinking the whole relationship. People think love is this emotion that exists on it's own. Love is actually a combination of many emotions and a big one is trust. If you have lost trust then you have lost love.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:00 PM   #103
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Maybe she seeing if she can trust you and makeing fake apparpment interviews and doing this stuff to see if she can trust you. Maybe it was her last attempt to see if you are trust worthy because you said you have gone through her stuff in the past.
Maybe you set your self up for failure and that was her last move befor she was out the door.
You could have screwed your self.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:03 PM   #104
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If I have to snoop the relationship is over. If I ask her and I think she is lying I don't want to be with her anymore.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:04 PM   #105
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I find usually when I have squabbling with Mikey it is through instant messenger because you can't see emotions. I wouldn't have this kind of conversation with him online. That is saying a lot because I do most of my communications through emails and text messages. I also would never snoop. I just feel like if you need to snoop then you should really be rethinking the whole relationship. People think love is this emotion that exists on it's own. Love is actually a combination of many emotions and a big one is trust. If you have lost trust then you have lost love.
That is beautifully put KA!!!! Ever think of being a relationship counselor lol, wish somebody had told me something like that long time ago. Listen to her OP you need to seriously look into yourself, why don't you trust her??

Maybe you're the problem...
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:05 PM   #106
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Somebody told me a long time ago that a girlfriend is either an asset or a liability. If she isn't an asset it is time move on.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:09 PM   #107
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That is beautifully put KA!!!! Ever think of being a relationship counselor lol, wish somebody had told me something like that long time ago. Listen to her OP you need to seriously look into yourself, why don't you trust her??

Maybe you're the problem...
People wouldn't like me because I took time to craft that and was more diplomatic than direct. In person I just say what I am thinking sometimes which doesn't necessarily come out so polite. In person that might have been more like pull your head out of your ass and stop being a psycho.. now pay me.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:14 PM   #108
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You sure do "stumble" across a lot of private info. Wise saying my dad taught me ........"Careful what ya look for, you just may find it"

Personally I think you crossed a line.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:18 PM   #109
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Things are gonna get discussed when she gets home from work. I feel I had a fair reason to snoop and possibly I will end up looking like an idiot. When I told her we needed to discuss what she did on Sunday she shut up pretty quick. I assume she now knows that I am pretty aware of her actions and is either gonna come straight out and say exactly what's going on or continue her lie.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:32 PM   #110
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I feel I had a fair reason to snoop and possibly I will end up looking like an idiot.
Yup you will because there is never a reason to snoop unless your at the end and already being lied to AFTER you have talked to her, so at this point if she did wrong or not your still gunna look bad because you snooped first and talked later, not only that but you gave her hours to prepare for what she is going to come home to and getting her own advise. Big no no with woman is snooping, you would be pissed if she did it to you without talking to you about her "issue" first. If I have a problem I ask and talk to that person, absorb what they told me, then determine my next move. Just like with police, evidence given without proper permission doesnt matter because you did wrong collecting it.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 01:41 PM   #111
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Yup you will because there is never a reason to snoop unless your at the end and already being lied to AFTER you have talked to her, so at this point if she did wrong or not your still gunna look bad because you snooped first and talked later, not only that but you gave her hours to prepare for what she is going to come home to and getting her own advise. Big no no with woman is snooping, you would be pissed if she did it to you without talking to you about her "issue" first. If I have a problem I ask and talk to that person, absorb what they told me, then determine my next move. Just like with police, evidence given without proper permission doesnt matter because you did wrong collecting it.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 02:13 PM   #112
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damn dude, you shouldn't have given her a heads up, you shouldn't have done it through email, and you shouldn't have admitted you snooped or pointed out the actual reason you wanted to talk to her.....you should have gone with the grandma deal and started from there, waited for her to lie, THEN asked about the apartment....

Or, just pack her things for her now.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 02:13 PM   #113
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I have no idea why this thread entertains me but it does :)
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Old March 15th, 2013, 02:16 PM   #114
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damn dude, you shouldn't have given her a heads up, you shouldn't have done it through email, and you shouldn't have admitted you snooped or pointed out the actual reason you wanted to talk to her.....you should have gone with the grandma deal and started from there, waited for her to lie, then asked about the apartment....

Or, just pack her things for her now.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 02:19 PM   #115
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Buy a tarp, a new shovel, duct tape, several gallons of bleach, and a baseball bat. Leave them out where she can see them.
This made me spit pop out my nose earlier today!
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Old March 15th, 2013, 02:47 PM   #116
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Damn confrontation I would of been happy with the Dear John letter
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Old March 15th, 2013, 03:20 PM   #117
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damn dude, you shouldn't have given her a heads up, you shouldn't have done it through email, and you shouldn't have admitted you snooped or pointed out the actual reason you wanted to talk to her.....you should have gone with the grandma deal and started from there, waited for her to lie, THEN asked about the apartment....

Or, just pack her things for her now.
Definitely not admitting I snooped. Unless she finds this thread.... Gonna go with grandma and honestly didn't really mean to find out about the apt. Just was using her computer when the guy sent an email about it.
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Definitely not admitting I snooped. Unless she finds this thread.... Gonna go with grandma and honestly didn't really mean to find out about the apt. Just was using her computer when the guy sent an email about it.
So, you are going to hide the fact you snooped with a lie. Great plan! Do you honestly care about this relationship?
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Old March 15th, 2013, 03:28 PM   #119
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So, you are going to hide the fact you snooped with a lie. Great plan! Do you honestly care about this relationship?
Damned if he admits he snooped damned if he lies. Might as well give himself a fighting chance and lie.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 03:35 PM   #120
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So, you are going to hide the fact you snooped with a lie. Great plan! Do you honestly care about this relationship?
Lie or not it should be an interesting conversation
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