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Old March 15th, 2013, 10:46 AM   #81
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It is so nice of you guys to host these threads for your brothers of GLakes and all of the helpful info and smartass remarks makes me tear up. I really like the way you look out for the better interests for the OP. Makes me think there really are good people out there.

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Old March 15th, 2013, 10:53 AM   #82
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She's only 26 and just had a iud put in. No babies for 5 years. It just doesn't make any sense. I checked her browser history last night and she's looking at apartments and also researching about our planned trip to the Netherlands in December. I'm a Dutch-Canadian and she has no reason to go there without me. My mom is even teaching her Dutch. I sent her a quick email just now letting her know I am concerned about somethings. We will see how this afternoon goes.
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Relax I am. Just getting all my ducks in a row so I don't make a fool of myself.
if she is up to something bad, then emailing her just tipped her off that you are on to her, and she is getting her "ducks in a row" for a story to tell you.

Would have been better to surprise her about the Grandma thing, then the apt if necessary, you would have either gotten a bunch of BS that didn't make sense with no time to think about it, or (hopefully) the truth.

now you still won't know if it's BS or truth. Unless she walks out...
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Old March 15th, 2013, 10:58 AM   #83
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How is sneaking around, going through her email and browser history getting your ducks in a row? you emailed her asking about some concerns? try talking to her face to face. I bet it does not go in your favor when she finds out you are going through her shit because you don't trust her!
ducks in a row or not.
Exactly. Men wing it, we dont have a habit of getting our ducks in a row. Women however plan the whole argument and are prepared.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:01 AM   #84
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She's only 26 and just had a iud put in. No babies for 5 years. It just doesn't make any sense. I checked her browser history last night and she's looking at apartments and also researching about our planned trip to the Netherlands in December. I'm a Dutch-Canadian and she has no reason to go there without me. My mom is even teaching her Dutch. I sent her a quick email just now letting her know I am concerned about somethings. We will see how this afternoon goes.
according to her...
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:07 AM   #85
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Facebook, email, texts, and browser history cyber stalker much?
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:08 AM   #86
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Facebook, email, texts, and browser history cyber stalker much?
Sounds like a healthy relationship
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:10 AM   #87
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No ring after 8 years
She lies
You dont trust her and gawd knows what else is wrong here.

Do your own laundry and dishes. Maybe learn to cook too.

Get out now!

There is no reason to continue this "relationship", all youre doing is kicking your own ass with the stress of playing detective everytime she breathes.
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Michelle is wrong, you should stick to this relationship and keep us updated on how things are going.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:16 AM   #89
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There is no reasonable explanation for someone to hide renting an apartment.

She is making her escape plan
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There is no reasonable explanation for someone to hide renting an apartment.

She is making her escape plan
Maybe she is setting up a dirty sex compound as a surprise for him.

Edit: never mind, i forgot about the no animals thing.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:29 AM   #91
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You want us to answer your questions without even getting a look at what we're talking about? Come awn man, TOGTFO
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:47 AM   #92
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according to her...
Definitely was there for the iud
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:49 AM   #93
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You want us to answer your questions without even getting a look at what we're talking about? Come awn man, TOGTFO
I let her know I know what's going on and were talking tonight. I'll let you know after that.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:50 AM   #94
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Definitely was there for the iud
Good, now you know when she doesn't get pregnant with her ex-boyfriend you don't have to worry about taking care of his kid. On the flip side, she doesn't have to worry about telling you she's pregnant by another man now either.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 11:53 AM   #95
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I let her know I know what's going on and were talking tonight. I'll let you know after that.
bad move IMO. Now she is planning the whole conversation out and thinking about all the excuses she needs to sound convincing and get you to buy it. The way to do it is the element of surprise conversation, no time to think of a good lie on the spot and if they do its pretty obvious.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:25 PM   #96
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It is so nice of you guys to host these threads for your brothers of GLakes and all of the helpful info and smartass remarks makes me tear up. I really like the way you look out for the better interests for the OP. Makes me think there really are good people out there.

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This thread is a man's version of typical afternoon soap operas.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:27 PM   #97
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No ring after 8 years
She lies
You dont trust her and gawd knows what else is wrong here.

Do your own laundry and dishes. Maybe learn to cook too.

Get out now!

There is no reason to continue this "relationship", all youre doing is kicking your own ass with the stress of playing detective everytime she breathes.
Women!

Did you ever, EVER simply consider that just maybe she is a great lay and that is why he is with her???!!!
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:33 PM   #98
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Or he has a small penis and cant get another woman.

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Did you ever, EVER simply consider that just maybe she is a great lay and that is why he is with her???!!!
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:36 PM   #99
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Old March 15th, 2013, 12:52 PM   #100
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Facebook, email, texts, and browser history cyber stalker much?
Technology is a really great means to fukc up a relationship these days....

You obviously don't trust her, you said you only checked her email after her grandma drove by but you hinted that you had checked other stuff of hers in the past. Wtf why don't you grow a pair and confront the bitch head on, either there's a legitimate excuse for everything in which you look like an ass hole for spying or she's been shady in which case you need to make some serious decisions about where your relationship is going. Seriously though cut out the emailing and Shit and do it face to face.
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