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Old December 24th, 2012, 01:58 PM   #21
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That sucks dude. Marriage is hard.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 01:58 PM   #22
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:04 PM   #23
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You'll live. Divorce isn't all bad, go do the things she didn't like you doing for the last 5 yrs. Hang out with your buddies that she hated you hanging out with. Get drunk on a week night....the list goes on and on. Just be happy that 1/4 of your income won't go to child support, trust me that sucks!
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:10 PM   #24
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Youre lucky, I'm probably not getting anything for Christmas
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:12 PM   #25
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Got a friend you can trust? Time to stash some money in his name. Your possessions too, have him take out a storage unit in his name so you can hide your stuff in it, stuff that "you never owned or sold years ago". Cancel any credit cards you share with your wife. Take possession of any important documents, titles, registrations, etc. you can think of that are yours or includes your name on.
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Divorce sucks when kids are involved. Without kids? Hide your money and belongings and get on with it
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:34 PM   #26
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Sucks. but don't let her play you the fool. she's a suckubus now. hide everything including money. She might change her mind next week. But the writings on the wall. Take it as a sign of better things down the road. good luck!
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:57 PM   #27
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I have to admit anyone wanting a divorce right at the holidays is a cold cold person. Sorry.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 02:59 PM   #28
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tell here that this is a great christmas present, thank you very much

but if she wants to make it better she can cover all the legal / settlement costs out of her own pocket.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 03:07 PM   #29
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Yep.....cash everything out to a trustworthy friend and claim you're broke.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 03:27 PM   #30
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Old December 24th, 2012, 03:31 PM   #31
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Sounds like a pretty good Christmas present if you ask me. Of course I am looking back at it after the divorce has been final for 10 months or so... Get a good attorney. File FIRST. People say it doesn't matter. Bullshit. If you file to divorce her, your attorney is in the driver's seat. It looks better when your name is listed as plaintiff. Trust me... Fortunately I didn't get fucked too hard in mine. We managed to work it out sorta fairly. They don't all work out that way...
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Old December 24th, 2012, 03:33 PM   #32
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Old December 24th, 2012, 03:49 PM   #33
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You'll live. Divorce isn't all bad, go do the things she didn't like you doing for the last 5 yrs. Hang out with your buddies that she hated you hanging out with. Get drunk on a week night....the list goes on and on. Just be happy that 3/4 of your income won't go to child support, trust me that sucks!
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Old December 24th, 2012, 05:27 PM   #34
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It takes two to work at it...Worse thing to do is get spiteful.
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Mine is just recently done. And, I didn't get out as lucky as 84Scrambler.
But it's done, and I'm ready to enjoy my Christmas.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 06:49 PM   #35
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I'm really sorry to hear this, even though i don't know you. Just remember, many things are painful in life, but lead to a better future that can't be seen in the present.
Yep everything happens for a reason. Keep your head high

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That sucks dude. I almost left my wife recently because of some issues she has refused to deal with. When she finally realized I had one foot out the door she came to her senses and decided to work things out for me. She had some points she was not happy with about me so I'm going to try to change too. Marriage is hard.
So true im not even married but relationships are hard. Both parties have to communicate and be willing to change some small things if you want it to work.

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Got a friend you can trust? Time to stash some money in his name. Your possessions too, have him take out a storage unit in his name so you can hide your stuff in it, stuff that "you never owned or sold years ago". Cancel any credit cards you share with your wife. Take possession of any important documents, titles, registrations, etc. you can think of that are yours or includes your name on.
X100000 definitely dont want her divorcing you and taking your belongings. Anyways find a way to have a merry xmas with family and friends things will be ok although they are hard right now
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Old December 24th, 2012, 09:05 PM   #36
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Get a good attorney. File FIRST. People say it doesn't matter. Bullshit. If you file to divorce her, your attorney is in the driver's seat. It looks better when your name is listed as plaintiff. Trust me...
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I won't go into too much detail for many reasons. If you want me to elaborate, PM me your number and I'll give you a call.

Oh, and don't be surprised if Stevo tries to swoop in in your ex...he got real chummy with mine here on GL during our divorce (I wish I was joking).

I'm truly sorry for your situation, despite not knowing you. I'll echo what others are saying about not having kids...that's good.

Best of luck to you.
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Old December 24th, 2012, 09:17 PM   #37
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It does suck, but good news is there's tons of women out there with better quality's and now you know what to look for when you decide to date again. I divorced my wife this year due to her spending and bar hopping, best thing I've ever done, my quality of life has gotten a lot better and I'm super happy to come home to a happy dog vs. a bitching wife. I'm not happy my daughter had to deal with it but we have split custody plus i still get my step daughter on my visitation days with my daughter (only because she wants to go whoring).
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Old December 24th, 2012, 10:52 PM   #38
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Sorry to hear man , I was dating my X for 7 years , lived together for 5 years and married for (3 months) yes 3 f*cking months and out of nowhere she drained the bank accounts , and I came home from work one day to a half empty house and she was Gone !! Come to find out she was cheating on me before we even got married and she left with him and took all the money and went to Vegas !! I never seen it coming !! We had no kids and thank god you don't either , I know how your feeling and it sucks , your mind is going a thousand miles a minute !! Stick close to your (true) friends and they will pull you through it !! Chicks are just down right crazy anymore , and I know you will say "whatever" right now but it is true , Time Heals All Wounds !! I wish you the best and definitely hide the stuff you don't want to lose in a friends name !! Oh and its gonna be rough but don't let her see or hear of the pain your in , trust me don't give her that satisfaction !! Good Luck !!

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Old December 24th, 2012, 11:17 PM   #39
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I'm sorry. Stay strong and everything will work out in the end.

Listen to the advice given in this thread. Seems to be the right stuff to do.
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