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Old December 12th, 2012, 02:09 PM   #41
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bitches be trippin Sorry to the orginal OP and even you Chad, like TJ said I would want to go on a rampage.



but I have never been married but first relationship ive been apart of is about 5 years and counting now, before that only 6 months tops. Learned really quick a relationship sometimes means biting your tounge and getting her that card that she and every other girl in the world needs. I mean if a trip to the dollar store, reading a few cards and picking one out and paying the dollar, and take it out to the car and write down you love them in a card is all the big of a deal think about the alternative of them being pissed for weeks on end or finding someone who will take the time to get a card. Now if you would have got that card things may be alot better for everyone involved and for some reason women need to be reminded that you still love them so why make things hard, just do it a few times a year, is it really worth trying to "retrain" women not to want to want cards, be thankful its just a card? I know I come home from work to nice hot meals and have a much happier gf at home if you give a little to get a little so to speak. That doesnot work tho if the other person in the relationship doesnt want to work on it or is looking elseware.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 02:16 PM   #42
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Just went through a similar thing. We were together 6 years, basically married most of that time (lived together, had a house, dogs, everything but kids and the legality of being married). She was begging to get married for a couple years, dropping hints up until the day I proposed. 8 weeks later she decided she liked my best friend better, he was also my boss. I lost her, my best friend, house, everything but one dog. A couple months later my "best friend" fired me because I wasn't happy he was with her.

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Old December 12th, 2012, 02:23 PM   #44
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how the fukc can a woman go from lets get married to this isnt working in 8 months on top of dateing for 8 years fukc
HAHA, Ive heard that in the same week!!!!
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Old December 12th, 2012, 04:47 PM   #45
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My favorite is the bitch that decides she never wants to have kids after 7 years together and a wedding is almost planned & paid for.


She thought i loved her enough that it wouldn't be a big deal.

WRONG! Gtfo
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Old December 12th, 2012, 05:46 PM   #46
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Old December 12th, 2012, 06:12 PM   #47
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Sorry to hear this. As long as everything is done right you should be ok. I dated my wife for 3 years then we lived together for a year and been married almost nine years now. She's now about to have our first child.

Oh and for kerryann cards are for kids. My wife does not want or expect them. We don't even buy gifts for each other at Xmas. If one of us wants something we talk with the other than decide when and where is the best place to get it. We also have date night 3-5 times a month. We also will call each other just to say I love you. Now when it's the others bday we both take a personal day from work and do whatever who's bday it is. And we communicate with each other way better than any card could ever say what we wanted to say to each other.

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Old December 12th, 2012, 06:14 PM   #48
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Old December 12th, 2012, 07:03 PM   #49
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My favorite is the bitch that decides she never wants to have kids after 7 years together and a wedding is almost planned & paid for.


She thought i loved her enough that it wouldn't be a big deal.

WRONG! Gtfo
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Old December 12th, 2012, 07:05 PM   #50
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That's closer than you could imagine, but more funny.
I actually went to her house a couple months after we split up (we were still on decent terms, she knew I had the key and was ok with me stopping by on ocassion). Well she wasn't home and I had to use the bathroom, I then found out he had moved in. Next time I saw him there may have been a little fight, my head broke the carburetor off his tractor but his body broke the steps going out of his barn. Oops

Worst part about it all is he won't even admit he is with her, I know he is just using her like he has done with the last few women he was with. Sucks to see somebody you love leave, especially when they are just going to get hurt.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 07:15 PM   #51
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Estrogen, it's fucked up.
Truth.. even when you know you are being a psycho sometimes you can't help it. It's like you are trapped in your body, knowing you are full blown psycho, and you cant stop.

PS we also do unexpected things for each other in our marriage too but we are both very considerate of each other in general. I never have to say to mike to get me a card and he never has to ask me for one either. I am not saying the card is important in itself but if Mikey wanted something from me and I knew it would make him happier and our marriage better I would do it in general. As an example I make his lunch everyday and I try to make sure it always has a little treat I know he will love (honeycrisp apple, banana, or yogurt raisins). The simple stuff counts.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 07:16 PM   #52
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That's closer than you could imagine, but more funny.
I actually went to her house a couple months after we split up (we were still on decent terms, she knew I had the key and was ok with me stopping by on ocassion). Well she wasn't home and I had to use the bathroom, I then found out he had moved in. Next time I saw him there may have been a little fight, my head broke the carburetor off his tractor but his body broke the steps going out of his barn. Oops:teehee

Worst part about it all is he won't even admit he is with her, I know he is just using her like he has done with the last few women he was with. Sucks to see somebody you love leave, especially when they are just going to get hurt.
That really sucks My ex was a tool too but I found someone way better after I was done with his nonsense. I know you will find someone better too.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 08:33 PM   #53
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Well, I know my wife isn't going anywhere, and I also know that if she decides to leave I can't stop her.

Some say I'm cold, I just look at things logically.

Crap, now I sound like Spock.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 08:39 PM   #54
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Well, I know my wife isn't going anywhere, and I also know that if she decides to leave I can't stop her.

Some say I'm cold, I just look at things logically.

Crap, now I sound like Spock.
Just buy your wife the damn card.
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Just buy your wife the damn card.
If I start buying cards now, then she really will start expecting them.....
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Old December 12th, 2012, 09:31 PM   #56
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My favorite is the bitch that decides she never wants to have kids after 7 years together and a wedding is almost planned & paid for.


She thought i loved her enough that it wouldn't be a big deal.

WRONG! Gtfo

That would be music to my ears.....there is no way in hell i could ever do the stereotypical wife/kids/family deal......seems women who feel the same are few and far between.....kids are a huge deal breaker for me.

It is crappy of her not to be up front with that though and just assume you would accept it
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That would be music to my ears.....there is no way in hell i could ever do the stereotypical wife/kids/family deal......seems women who feel the same are few and far between.....kids are a huge deal breaker for me.

It is crappy of her not to be up front with that though and just assume you would accept it
I talk a lot like I don't want my kids, and before I had my first I would have been ok with having none. The hard/angry times are really hard/angry, but the goods out weigh any other joy/happiness/accomplishment there is.
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Wow.... I think Dr Phill needs to intervene on this thread.
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Sorry to hear this. As long as everything is done right you should be ok. I dated my wife for 3 years then we lived together for a year and been married almost nine years now. She's now about to have our first child.

Oh and for kerryann cards are for kids. My wife does not want or expect them. We don't even buy gifts for each other at Xmas. If one of us wants something we talk with the other than decide when and where is the best place to get it. We also have date night 3-5 times a month. We also will call each other just to say I love you. Now when it's the others bday we both take a personal day from work and do whatever who's bday it is. And we communicate with each other way better than any card could ever say what we wanted to say to each other.

In2deep best of luck !
Date night sounds hokey but it's very good advice. Ours is usually a trip to Applebee's and Home Depot. As marriage goes on it's pretty easy to just take each other for granted. Making the effort to treat each other special is well worth the effort.
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