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Old August 6th, 2011, 05:29 PM   #1
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My wife has an ex husband that is about 15k behind on his child support. FOC is a joke, and have done little to make him pay. He is the king of getting others to feel sorry for him. For the last 7 1/2 years he has not held a job and won't put anything in his name. He claims to be self employed selling health insurance. His newest scam on craigslist appears to be recruiter for something called "global communications", promising salaries of up to 50k a year. His base support is set at 406 per month but he pays what he wants and when he wants but never what he is supposed to. He has figured out that as long as he makes a payment at least every 6 weeks, no matter how little keeps him out of the enforcement side of FOC. He stopped contact with his son over a year ago and has been hiding under the radar. What do you guys suggest to do?
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My wife has an ex husband that is about 15k behind on his child support. FOC is a joke, and have done little to make him pay. He is the king of getting others to feel sorry for him. For the last 7 1/2 years he has not held a job and won't put anything in his name. He claims to be self employed selling health insurance. His newest scam on craigslist appears to be recruiter for something called "global communications", promising salaries of up to 50k a year. His base support is set at 406 per month but he pays what he wants and when he wants but never what he is supposed to. He has figured out that as long as he makes a payment at least every 6 weeks, no matter how little keeps him out of the enforcement side of FOC. He stopped contact with his son over a year ago and has been hiding under the radar. What do you guys suggest to do?
Hire a PI, build a case and slam it in his ass! You will also get further with the FOC if your attorney does all the talking.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 06:07 PM   #3
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Old August 6th, 2011, 06:16 PM   #4
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x2, lifes too short to concern yourself with deadbeats. He is the one missing out on his son growing up. Give the boy a great life and be his dad and do everything to be sure you there for him.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 06:23 PM   #5
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Move on in life.
There is that too... Unless you truly need that money to raise the boy.

Be the father you signed on to be when you married his mother and an example of how NOT to be a sperm donor.
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I have assumed all roles and duties as his father since day 1. I whole-heatedly agree with moving on with life, which we have. There is just always this nagging frustration. I guess today it just got the best of me.
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I have assumed all roles and duties as his father since day 1. I whole-heatedly agree with moving on with life, which we have. There is just always this nagging frustration. I guess today it just got the best of me.

Does it piss you off? Damn straight it does!
Does it get the better of you on occasion? Damn straight it does!
Does it teach you and your child(ren) how to be the better, more responsible person? Damn straight it does!!!

Without ever saying a bad word about that little boys "dad" in front of him, he is forming an opinion of that "man", later on in life he will deal with him on that.

Just love him
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call and request his drivers license be suspended. He is behind enough that she needs to call and request a felony warrent issued. After his license gets suspended it will NOT get reinstated until he pays the full amount. This is info from my wife. she works for the place you call a "joke". just a little advise when she calls FOC she needs to be very nice or will get know where. what county is this going on in? if its wayne then just give up and move on. But others she should have a chance to get something out of the deadbeat. Or at the very least make his life a little uncomfortable.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 07:01 PM   #10
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I don't usually chime in on personal lives, but since I have experience in this area. when dealing with gov/FOC one thing to keep in mind is that the squeaky wheel gets the grease.
anything to do with with fed/state help is very slow, frustrating, and mundane.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 07:04 PM   #11
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He was 12k behind when she suggested they suspend his license last year, they told her that since he makes a small payment every 6 weeks that they couldn't move on with the enforcement phase.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 07:13 PM   #12
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After seeing how many people suggested to just move on it made us realize that doing nothing may be the best solution. His arrears will continue to climb and he will have nobody to blame but himself when the house of cards comes crashing down. Neither one of us would sleep well knowing that we had a hand in placing him in jail.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 07:21 PM   #13
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you can petition the court to get his federal a state taxes also before he gets money from s.s when he retires your wife will get paid for back child support.I know its not much but its something
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I don't usually chime in on personal lives, but since I have experience in this area. when dealing with gov/FOC one thing to keep in mind is that the squeaky wheel gets the grease.
anything to do with with fed/state help is very slow, frustrating, and mundane.
cockdogg is right. My friends ex wife is a nagging cunt bitch and she keeps my friend in court over child support. he has to go back to MI 3-4 times a year to fight this bitch in court.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 08:22 PM   #15
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I have assumed all roles and duties as his father since day 1. I whole-heatedly agree with moving on with life, which we have. There is just always this nagging frustration. I guess today it just got the best of me.
If you dont need the $$ then let him think he has won. In the end you know he is a loser and eventually the kid will as well. I havent seen my "dad" in over 30 years. I dont know where he is or if he is even alive. My mother married someone my brother and I could look up to as a real dad when we were young. That was way more than the $$ that came in the mail every so often, if it even came at all.

Enjoy being a dad and let the scumbag be a scumbag.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 08:29 PM   #16
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We appreciate all the words of wisdom! We are okay financially, not to say that the $ wouldn't make life easier but it's just not worth all the that goes along with it.
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fuck that, call them a couple times a week. it wont take much time and it causes an inconvenience to a inept government agency and a deadbeat asshole.
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My GF's dad skipped out on like 50k of child support from her and her sister for 13+ years. Now that he is on disability,S.S. half that money goes to them and they give him the rest. Sucks for him.
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Old August 6th, 2011, 08:49 PM   #19
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fuck that, call them a couple times a week. it wont take much time and it causes an inconvenience to a inept government agency and a deadbeat asshole.
X2. Letting the shit go is just enabling the motherfucker, why let him slide by? If you owe, then you owe....it's a simple concept.

I've never had to deal with FOC, but have had friends that have. They'll fukc with people that are paying regularly, so have them do some real work....call them up and find out why they're letting him get one over.
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