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Old October 21st, 2009, 09:48 PM   #61
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Must be in the air. My friends woman broke up with him a couple weeks ago, after being together for about 4 years or something like that.

She was horrible for him, and I have to say that I was kind of glad to see them break up. He's been mopey about it. But he's getting better.


Just like I told him, Its gonna suck and you're not going to be able to keep your mind off of it for quite a while. But you'll need to keep your head high. Don't give her shit about it. Just ignore her, and if she ever wants to come back to you, it will hurt her more than anything to know you dont want her back then anything you will have to say to her before that time may come.

I did this same thing to a girl a few years ago, she still tries to talk to me from time to time. I'm not mean to her, but I try to make it obvious that I dont want anything to do with her.
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Old October 21st, 2009, 09:49 PM   #62
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Time to drink some beers and go FUB'in. You'll be alright Adam, my roommate's girlfriend dumped him last year and he went through a really rough spot. Ended up over doing it with the booze. He called her every time he got drunk and it got way out of hand. It's ok to use "self therapy", just don't let this consume you.
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Old October 21st, 2009, 09:55 PM   #63
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sometimes i wish mine would break up with me, i feel to bad to do it to her. edit- ive been drinking
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Old October 21st, 2009, 10:09 PM   #64
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Ya man that shit sucks, Mine broke up with me a few months ago and now she's dating my (ex)bestfriend. at least you aren't in that situation at least i can only hope that you don't get into that situation. Think of the positives, I know it can be hard to find anything positive right now but they will come and you will become a better person because of it. I know I have.
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Old October 21st, 2009, 11:18 PM   #65
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WTF? Aren't you 22? Way to early to be "the one"
This would also be the time to post up any dirty pictures.


Btw, can you hook a brotha up???
x2, the best way to get back at her is to post up all the dirty pics you have. Ill toss all mine up here if it happens to me
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Old October 21st, 2009, 11:26 PM   #66
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date her best friend... thats what i did.. we've been together for a little over 2 1/2 yrs now.. though they werent friends anymore before we started dating
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Old October 21st, 2009, 11:34 PM   #67
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yea im gonna have to say its the air. somethin is goin on anyways. me and my girl have been together for the last 5 years almost. just a couple weeks ago we split up. i dont even know where to begin on our situation. there is so much shit you all would prolly loose your minds just trying to understand it all. lets just say its one messed up situation. i feel your pain.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 12:02 AM   #68
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been there. not gonna lie to ya...it SUCKED!!! good friends really helped me out. got me drunk a lot, but hey, it helped and they didn't let me call her when i did get drunk. that break up kinda fucked me up for a while. was with her for 3 years. ended up losing my job, some good friends eventually, and self respect over it. don't let this happen to you. there is no easy way to "let her go". the more you hear that bull shit, the more you will want her back. it's bad news for you. the only thing i can tell you from my experience is to find something else to do besides thinking about calling her. you will always think about her, but just try not to call her. maybe getting a dog and hanging out at park with it everyday will help. there are a bunch of morons on here that will give you their dog. you never know, you could meet someone else there as well. if i was single now, oh boy would i have so much more fun at the dog park. so many women. it's fun just chatting with them anyway. easy ice breakers. or join some clubs or something.

good luck,
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 12:29 AM   #69
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Been there, done that its been about a year around this time now.

Could be a lot fucking worse... engaged, married, kids, cheated on, ect.

Booze will not help in the long run, tried that.

Be happy that it ended when it did and try your best to move on with your life, there is obviously someone much better out there waiting for you.

What ever you do don't be "friends" or try to win her back, don't make any contact, cut your loses and move on...
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 01:03 AM   #70
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Save yourself the agony of stage 1 and go straight for stage 2!
It will help
x2k+12 quit being a pussy and go get laid. or go beg her to come back, whatever.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 01:48 AM   #71
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don't make any contact, cut your loses and move on...
X2 i know it aint the easiest man but thats your best bet, fuck 'em and dont look back. Could have been worse, alot worse!!!
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 05:32 AM   #72
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i was talking to my mom about it, and shes like "well if you truely love her you can be patient and see if she comes back, or you can hurry yourself up and have sex with someone else" lol

i was like wtf mom come on.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 07:39 AM   #73
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If you are a hunter, get a way for a few days go hang out in the woods, watch nature come alive, shoot a deer or 2. It release some anger but brings joy at the same time.

Dont drink your self stupid it doesnt help, you wake up feeling like shit, and have no money in your pocket.


It always hurts to loose some one that you are close too, but time will heal. Just keep your head straight, and think before you act
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 08:17 AM   #74
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Sorry to hear of the break up.

Please, be a grownup and don't run out and hurt other people to make yourself feel better.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 08:38 AM   #75
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Yeah man sorry to hear about it, its never fun to have that happen......But why arent you hooking up with other chicks? Theres got to be some that youve kept around on the back burner. You always gotta have that one girl you know that will never "let you down". The big question is, did you get to keep the dog you got together?

I had that happen to me and i didnt give the dog back, i still have the dog and she is way smarter than the ex. haha
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 08:46 AM   #76
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Please, be a grownup and don't run out and hurt other people to make yourself feel better.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 09:35 AM   #77
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Yeah man sorry to hear about it, its never fun to have that happen......But why arent you hooking up with other chicks? Theres got to be some that youve kept around on the back burner. You always gotta have that one girl you know that will never "let you down". The big question is, did you get to keep the dog you got together?

I had that happen to me and i didnt give the dog back, i still have the dog and she is way smarter than the ex. haha
well i had my dog before we dated and we got the other... i lost a dog in a previous breakup so i decided to let her keep him. the pain of loosing a dog is worse than a girl i think. i still have my dog though.

thank you to everyone else. today is my birthday so i got pretty drunk last night lol. excited for the weekend but im sure i will have a few rough spots while everyone is out on saturday night.

im not gonna get a dui, fight anyone, or kill myself, thanks for worrying.
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 09:38 AM   #78
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Old October 22nd, 2009, 09:38 AM   #79
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well i had my dog before we dated and we got the other... i lost a dog in a previous breakup so i decided to let her keep him. the pain of loosing a dog is worse than a girl i think. i still have my dog though.

thank you to everyone else. today is my birthday so i got pretty drunk last night lol. excited for the weekend but im sure i will have a few rough spots while everyone is out on saturday night.

im not gonna get a dui, fight anyone, or kill myself, thanks for worrying.
Good deal!

Happy birthday, btw.
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well i had my dog before we dated and we got the other... i lost a dog in a previous breakup so i decided to let her keep him. the pain of loosing a dog is worse than a girl i think. i still have my dog though.

thank you to everyone else. today is my birthday so i got pretty drunk last night lol. excited for the weekend but im sure i will have a few rough spots while everyone is out on saturday night.

im not gonna get a dui, fight anyone, or kill myself, thanks for worrying.
Glad you had fun last night and still have your dog, Dog is worth more than a girl friend anytime. cheers for not going off the deep end too, no woman is worth that, you will find that as you get older.
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