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Old June 8th, 2009, 09:04 PM   #1
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so in december i made the now bad decision to let me best friend of 13 yrs move in with me so he can go to school at occ. long story short he took forever to get a job and now only works part time barely making any money. what money he does make he manages to blow on idk what. he blew his shot at going to school cuz he couldn't get there. i'm not supporting his lazy ass anymore. how do i get him out of the house? he got a michigan license and it has my address on it. he doesn't pay me rent and i own my house. i have to pay for everything for him. i paid for a truck the insurance on it food gas everything. he does absolutely nothing around here to help me. all he wants to do is go have fun and piss money down the drain.

cliff notes: i need my not best friend to move the hell out of my house but he won't go cuz his parents won't take him back...
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Old June 8th, 2009, 09:11 PM   #2
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be a man and throw his shit to the curb. he isnt a real friend. a real friend wouldnt treat you like that.


its a crappy situation and its hard to do but you need to do it. best of luck
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i have to pay for everything for him. i paid for a truck the insurance on it food gas everything. he does absolutely nothing around here to help me.

Was the sex worth it all?
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no contract? he'll have a helluva tough time proving even a verbal agreement of any fashion was arrived at. tell him he has a week to get his junk out.

I agree, he's not a friend. he's a leach, and needs a kick in the pants to get life started/restarted.

driver's license and even registering to vote is sometimes viewed as 'proof of residency' for certain things, but they are not in and of themselves proof of a tenant contract arrangement.

(my parents have a long-standing vacant 2 acre lot next to them, the owner lives in an apartment in waterford, but he has his mail delivered to a mail box at the vacant lot, and has his driver's license with that address as well - he clearly doesn't live there as there is no house on the lot)
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throw all his shit on the yard and change the door locks
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Was the sex worth it all?
X2 Sounds like at the very least you should be getting a blow job.

Seriously tho... You have to go to the court, get an eviction notice.. I think the soonest he can be out is 2 weeks if you get an expidited one. Usually it is 30 days. Don't think you can get a restraining order and then he just can't come to your house... You will in essense kick yourself outta your own house.
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Jimmy, we need to talk.

You are a mooch and you need to go.

I burned all your shit so you have nothing.

And you need to go and never come back.
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Old June 8th, 2009, 09:53 PM   #11
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no contract? he'll have a helluva tough time proving even a verbal agreement of any fashion was arrived at. tell him he has a week to get his junk out.

I agree, he's not a friend. he's a leach, and needs a kick in the pants to get life started/restarted.

driver's license and even registering to vote is sometimes viewed as 'proof of residency' for certain things, but they are not in and of themselves proof of a tenant contract arrangement.

(my parents have a long-standing vacant 2 acre lot next to them, the owner lives in an apartment in waterford, but he has his mail delivered to a mail box at the vacant lot, and has his driver's license with that address as well - he clearly doesn't live there as there is no house on the lot)
Incorrect...It is stupid the way the law is written, but as far as the courts are concerned, that is his residence also, and has as much right and the orgional poster has to be there.
My Girlfriend has some of her stuff at my house, if her and I were to break up, she could still LEGALLY still stay here, because she has a change of clothes, toothbrush ect. To the point, she could get a restraining order against ME and I can not be let into my own house.
Just ask HerRubi how Bjeepin stole a bunch of her shit outta her house.....
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Careful though, you don't want a domestic assault case on your record.
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Incorrect...It is stupid the way the law is written, but as far as the courts are concerned, that is his residence also, and has as much right and the orgional poster has to be there.
not entirely incorrect, I'm not talking about the pure legality of how things work... we all know oj simpson committed murder... as for the restraining order - that's an excellent way to handle it actually... just file one against the leach/slug!

Anyway, I'm guessing the 'tenant' has no record other than his driver's license that he lives there.

anyone can have their mail forwarded and/or driver's license changed.

it's a his word my word scenario, with no written/signed agreement. the 'tenant' has no resources to fight this in court, small claims or otherwise.

I personally would tell him he had a week. period.

but then I also wouldn't let myself get into this scenario.
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not entirely incorrect, I'm not talking about the pure legality of how things work... we all know oj simpson committed murder... as for the restraining order - that's an excellent way to handle it actually... just file one against the leach/slug!
Thats what I'm staying.. If he files a Restraing order he will kick HIMSELF out of his own house.
Anyway, I'm guessing the 'tenant' has no record other than his driver's license that he lives there.

anyone can have their mail forwarded and/or driver's license changed.

it's a his word my word scenario, with no written/signed agreement. the 'tenant' has no resources to fight this in court, small claims or otherwise.
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I personally would tell him he had a week. period.

but then I also wouldn't let myself get into this scenario.
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not entirely incorrect, I'm not talking about the pure legality of how things work... we all know oj simpson committed murder... as for the restraining order - that's an excellent way to handle it actually... just file one against the leach/slug!

Anyway, I'm guessing the 'tenant' has no record other than his driver's license that he lives there.

anyone can have their mail forwarded and/or driver's license changed.

it's a his word my word scenario, with no written/signed agreement. the 'tenant' has no resources to fight this in court, small claims or otherwise.

I personally would tell him he had a week. period.

but then I also wouldn't let myself get into this scenario.
You can say this and if he doesn't know any better or talk to anyone who knows better, and he leaves cool. Change the locks.

But legally you need to go to court and evict him and he'll have 30 days (just like MonkeyBiz said) It doesn't matter if he pays rent, his lic. says that's his address. We went through this with my brother in law. It's an F'ing mess!

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Then throw him and his shit to the curb.
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Old June 9th, 2009, 07:31 AM   #19
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You have more D.Rama than anybody I've ever seen.

From now on when you make a decision, write it down on paper and stare at it for at least a day, thinking about every possible outcome.

You need to start using your head son.
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Do this legally, have him evicted. If you get into a physical altercation you can be charged with domestic assult ( you live together). If you go to jail he could get a restraining order on you, and you would not be able to go into your own house ( yes its true, I have seen this happen).
Do it the legal route.. be safe.
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