wouldn't really matter after you married her there is no more sex.......now would I date someone who was a bad lay......NO.
well maybe for a while, at least I would be getting some, bad sex is better than no sex..
I agree, if the girl is sheltered / inexperienced and willing to try new things, and is flexible (literally and figuratively :naughty: ) then sure. As long as she is not a total frigid prude who lays there like a zombie. If she is old and hasnt learned anything then set her on her way.
I might get a few bad replies but hey just giving you my honest opinion.
marriage is supposed to be a life long ordeal. sex isn't a major concern but it is a concern. we are pretty much talking about a legal contract between two people. not best friends or what good for me right now. to put it in laymen terms would you go into business with your best friend. putting your money and reputation on the line if one of the benefits wasn't very good. and not an easy way to change the benefit. just my input
lol true. The question should be if your a guy .... do you mind if the girl just lays there or has any skillz at all or is even trying. Good versus better. Nice point monkey evil. I just want the girl to want it so i am not scared if we got married she would becoming down with "headaches" all the time. If she was into it i would not worry so much. Even bad sex is pretty good for guys though :sonicjay:
hahahah we submitted that for a "best pick up line contest" at the Mellow Mushroom in Savannah last year, I was told it took honorable mention or some shit like that...
"May I interest you in the best 2 inches and 20 seconds of your life?"
yeehaw
o yea as for the original question, hell yea, learned from my "rents" if it aint working in the bedroom it aint working anywhere else...
lol true. The question should be if your a guy .... do you mind if the girl just lays there or has any skillz at all or is even trying. Good versus better. Nice point monkey evil. I just want the girl to want it so i am not scared if we got married she would becoming down with "headaches" all the time. If she was into it i would not worry so much. Even bad sex is pretty good for guys though :sonicjay:
I know ill bring trouble for postin this but...... its
kinda funny you should mention the head ache thing...because some of my men in the past always pulled the...I work hard during the day shit....or iI am too tired....and then there was me....who thought d@mn I gotta be real tired to not want to at least try to get it on. so don't go blaiming in all on the ladies...out of all my gal friends ... we all want it. we just choose not to go druling around like pigs, and allow it to consume our mind. i wont lie i think about it quite frequently...someone would be lieing if they say they didn't its only natural. just my experience ..... about the marry part i am not at the stage .. and although sex is great i also want a person with a good character/personality....you have to live with the person not just do them all the time. and if they know what they are doing...it wont matter, size and all that other stuff...coming from the ladies prospective.
I know ill bring trouble for postin this but...... its
kinda funny you should mention the head ache thing...because some of my men in the past always pulled the...I work hard during the day shit....or iI am too tired....and then there was me....who thought d@mn I gotta be real tired to not want to at least try to get it on. so don't go blaiming in all on the ladies...out of all my gal friends ... we all want it. we just choose not to go druling around like pigs, and allow it to consume our mind. i wont lie i think about it quite frequently...someone would be lieing if they say they didn't its only natural. just my experience ..... about the marry part i am not at the stage .. and although sex is great i also want a person with a good character/personality....you have to live with the person not just do them all the time. and if they know what they are doing...it wont matter, size and all that other stuff...coming from the ladies prospective.
Fair enough but i think if you polled married guys (i am not married and havent had to suffer through to many nights where a girl friend used the headache excuse or tired or whatever) but i really get the impression married folks its the woman who gets headaches a few years into the marriage. It just a fear in the back of my mind a girlfriend will be cool as hell when we date, and be great in bed, get married and two years latter the head ache sex drought begins.
You know how scientists have made woman more horny, and increase sex drive in case studies? By giving them more testosterone !!!
... trust me most guys are not gonna be turning down sex. Those guys you spoke of were the exception not the norm. Especially if they are young. That was jsut the excuse. I dont know the real reason but trust me there are more guys running around paying for sex, and jumping through all sorts of hoops to get laid, than there are men turning down sex that is offered up to them. Mens perspective :d:
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