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Old March 14th, 2013, 10:05 PM   #41
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Old March 14th, 2013, 10:41 PM   #42
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Old March 15th, 2013, 03:47 AM   #43
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Agreed. To each their own. Guess I just make sure I pick women that don't want to get married so I don't have to deal with that issue.

To the OP... How did you stumble across these emails? The answer determines whether you should talk to her about it or not. Could backfire if you were " snooping through her email".
I started being suspicious on Sunday when she told me she was taking her grandma shopping and an hour after she left her grandma drove by honking and waving. I looked at her texts for Sunday and I saw her texting about viewing this apt. I then looked online at apt ads till I found the one with the same contact number. It's a bachelor apt and there is a chance that she is renting it for a friend. This being said this friend could also be her ex boyfriend who she is friends with. She knows very well that I am not happy with her contacting him since stumbling upon earlier messages on Facebook.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 03:50 AM   #44
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To avoid confusion in my earlier post she does live with me and has for 4 years.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 05:01 AM   #45
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Old March 15th, 2013, 05:02 AM   #46
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Start with asking her about her grandmother. She lied there, you didn't do anything wrong and see if she starts to confess. If not, bring up what you know. From your posts information between you two isn't hidden.

On a side note, Facebook ruins relationships because of old flames reconnecting and privacy doesn't exist anywhere.

And those that have read my posts probably think I'm the wrong guy to offer advice, but oh well...
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Start with asking her about her grandmother. She lied there, you didn't do anything wrong and see if she starts to confess. If not, bring up what you know. From your posts information between you two isn't hidden.

On a side note, Facebook ruins relationships because of old flames reconnecting and privacy doesn't exist anywhere.

And those that have read my posts probably think I'm the wrong guy to offer advice, but oh well...
Dumb people ruin relationships facebook just speeds up the process.
I would start a yard sale right now with her things. If she didnt care enough to include you in this move you were gone along time ago. There is no way Id trust her now.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 06:29 AM   #49
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I would start a yard sale right now with her things. If she didnt care enough to include you in this move you were gone along time ago. There is no way Id trust her now.
Funny you mentioned this idea. I heard about this driving in to work today
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Old March 15th, 2013, 06:34 AM   #50
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I've come to the point where even if this apt isn't for her she hasn't mentioned it at all. There is one scenario in my head that would be ok but it's not likely. She has a friend that is in a weird, possibly abusive relationship and could possibly be wanting to move out. The apt is near said friends parents house. But this friends brother is the ex boyfriend mentioned so who knows
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where there is smoke.......







Grandma drove by while she was with Grandma, seems pretty obvious, something is being held from you, find out why she is lying to you, if she won't come clean, she isn't worth giving another chance to come clean and you can make that point clear by packing up her things for her and changing the locks.
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Grandma drove by while she was with Grandma, seems pretty obvious, something is being held from you, find out why she is lying to you, if she won't come clean, she isn't worth giving another chance to come clean and you can make that point clear by packing up her things for her and changing the locks.
Bingo. If she is trying to help a friend there is no reason to hide it.
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I've come to the point where even if this apt isn't for her she hasn't mentioned it at all. There is one scenario in my head that would be ok but it's not likely. She has a friend that is in a weird, possibly abusive relationship and could possibly be wanting to move out. The apt is near said friends parents house. But this friends brother is the ex boyfriend mentioned so who knows
You still dont see it. If the apartment IS for someone else she still is signing a rental agreement . She will be liable for those expenses if it doesnt work out.
Couples in relationships dont run out and spend money and/or sign rental agreements without letting the other half know.
My brotherinlaw is having problems and of coarse the wife wants to help. The wife asked me if we could buy a place and resell on land contract? Of coase my answer was fukc that but you see the right way to start. Not just do it behind your back.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 06:57 AM   #54
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How do you "stumble" upon emails? ...." Oh honey btw, i fell on the computer and it logged into your email account"...

talk to her about it, instead of posting in a public forum
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Old March 15th, 2013, 07:01 AM   #55
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I thought it meant we had a new Pope.........
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I started being suspicious on Sunday when she told me she was taking her grandma shopping and an hour after she left her grandma drove by honking and waving.

Is there a chance that instead of going shopping they drank a lot, and her grandpa was hammered and driving home?



So, she lied about grandma.

You've been with her for 8 years, and she did not mention renting an apartment.. Even if it was for a friend or family member, chances are she would have at least mentioned this large purchase.


IMO, you should ask her. Bring up the grandma story, see what she says.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 07:45 AM   #57
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Suta99 has got problems and the bitch is one.


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I've come to the point where even if this apt isn't for her she hasn't mentioned it at all. There is one scenario in my head that would be ok but it's not likely. She has a friend that is in a weird, possibly abusive relationship and could possibly be wanting to move out. The apt is near said friends parents house. But this friends brother is the ex boyfriend mentioned so who knows
Sounds like you're making excuses for what you know is going on.

The sooner you are honest with yourself, the sooner you will be with a girl who isn't renting apartments for ex boyfriends.
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Old March 15th, 2013, 07:55 AM   #60
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Eight years and no ring for her. She finally realized her biological clock is ticking away and it's time for her to move on.
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