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Old January 20th, 2013, 05:46 PM   #1
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Default cheap divorce is there such a thing?

so most of you know my situation if you dont recap

same cunt for like 8 years got married 8 or so months ago, one day she woke up and pretty much may my life hell and then left one day moved to ohio to her parents house and took our 4 year old daughter and left me with the the bills and house. she will not talke to me about what the fukc she wants im tired of it and need to move on. i dont want to make it ugly i just want to get on with my life

so what am i looking at for a divorce any help or advice would be nice
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Old January 20th, 2013, 05:48 PM   #2
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Cost depends on her looks. Pics needed.


Seriously though, file 1st, and put her on the defense.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 05:52 PM   #3
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Don't cheap out now it will cost you later. Also try for joint custody. My friend has it that way and pays no child support.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 05:54 PM   #4
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I think the only way it will be cheap is if you two can play nice. Sounds like this is going to cost you.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 06:11 PM   #5
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MonkeyBiz is right!!! U want to file first. PUT HER ASS ON THE DEFENCE!!!!!
Carr in Greenville did my last one, $1500, 20 some years ago. Good luck, get a GOOD one.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 06:17 PM   #6
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Know why divorce is expensive?



Because it's worth it!
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Old January 20th, 2013, 06:26 PM   #7
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legally you can write your own divorce for free. question is will she contest it?
anything you can get rid of b4 the divorce, do it now while you can.
your tools and toys we sold to help pay the bills she stiffed you with.
hope you got a friend you can trust to take care of your stuff.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 06:45 PM   #8
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You can probably annul the marriage. Not sure what to say about the kid though.

IF you can agree on all the settlement terms then divorce is cheap. If not, then it's going to cost a lot. Mine (married over 12 years, no kids) cost me over $5k in attorney fees, only to find out I still lost everything and pay an unbelievable amount in spousal support. But every case is different. Hope you guys can do it peacefully.
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You can probably annul the marriage. Not sure what to say about the kid though.

IF you can agree on all the settlement terms then divorce is cheap. If not, then it's going to cost a lot. Mine (married over 12 years, no kids) cost me over $5k in attorney fees, only to find out I still lost everything and pay an unbelievable amount in spousal support. But every case is different. Hope you guys can do it peacefully.
No kids and spousal support? Was your judge a divorced female gone dyke?

People wonder why after 6 years and 2 kids why I'm not married...
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22 years and counting, cheaper to keep 'er.....

But then she hasn't totally fukked me over yet. Just partially.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 07:46 PM   #11
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Because it's worth it!

Amen!!!
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Old January 20th, 2013, 07:46 PM   #12
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No kids and spousal support? Was your judge a divorced female gone dyke?

People wonder why after 6 years and 2 kids why I'm not married...
x2 no kids but i have a long time girlfriend. i like my stuff way too much to get married.
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Yes, start dating a girl whose dad is an attorney. Sorry you fave to go through this.....

From personal experience, divorce is better than staying in an impossible marriage.
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x2 no kids but i have a long time girlfriend. i like my stuff way too much to get married.
yeah i didnt want to get married but after 5 years of her asking i guessed whats it going to hurt, well fukc me,


the problem is i dont have the money to get attorney and im hopeing she dont too
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No kids and spousal support? Was your judge a divorced female gone dyke?

People wonder why after 6 years and 2 kids why I'm not married...
Often it comes down to how the judge views you and what you allowed your spouse to become used to as a standard of living.

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yeah i didnt want to get married but after 5 years of her asking i guessed whats it going to hurt, well fukc me,


the problem is i dont have the money to get attorney and im hopeing she dont too
My best advice is to get over your emotions in private and be only polite during the process. Having a bad attitude will hurt you.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 08:18 PM   #16
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You can probably annul the marriage. Not sure what to say about the kid though.

IF you can agree on all the settlement terms then divorce is cheap. If not, then it's going to cost a lot. Mine (married over 12 years, no kids) cost me over $5k in attorney fees, only to find out I still lost everything and pay an unbelievable amount in spousal support. But every case is different. Hope you guys can do it peacefully.
WTF I didn't think Michigan was an Alimony state???
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WTF I didn't think Michigan was an Alimony state???
Michigan is a spousal support state. The amount of support and the length of support are decided upon by the judge as there are no guidelines.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 08:35 PM   #18
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So can we get pics yet?
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Old January 20th, 2013, 08:55 PM   #19
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Is the 4 year old yours? Is your name on the Birth Certificate?

Do you care she took your daughter out of state?

Attorney.....quickly....if you care about your stuff.
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Old January 20th, 2013, 08:57 PM   #20
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I cant read all of this. My advice would be to not listen to anyone on the internet. If you want real good advice, we need to hear her side too. This thread has classic potential I am sure. It is too bad it has come to this. Time to make a decision if you are going to go to war with her or if you are going to try to work something out and salvage some sort of respect for each other. Maybe quit bragging about banging strange on the internet? I dont know..... I dont care either.
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