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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:15 PM   #1
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Default Porn Hurts Marriage. (Now NSFW)

Been Listening to a great Sermon series on Marriage by an excellent preacher named Mark Driscol.



I've heard so many of you say that looking at porn has no effect on your sex life. Some even say it enhances it. If that's you I challenge you to make it through just this one sermon on Porn. I don't care if you believe in God, If your a 'family man' who really loves his wife and Children, this can help you understand what effect (weather you want to admit it or not) that porn can have on them.

The Porn Path

The Whole series, IMO, is worth listening too. I've been listening to it while working on a friends house.

The Real Marriage Series

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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:21 PM   #2
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I don't want to listen to another person's opinion on how they feel others should conduct themselves...especially an opinion based on a set of beliefs I probably don't follow anyway.

Later...gotta get back to redtube.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:22 PM   #3
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Been Listening to a great Sermon series on Marriage by an excellent preacher named Mark Driscol.



I've heard so many of you say that looking at porn has no effect on your sex life. Some even say it enhances it. If that's you I challenge you to make it through just this one sermon on Porn. I don't care if you believe in God, If your a 'family man' who really loves his wife and Children, this can help you understand what effect (weather you want to admit it or not) that porn can have on them.

The Porn Path

The Whole series, IMO, is worth listening too. I've been listening to it while working on a friends house.

The Real Marriage Series

<zips up fire suit, hope for the best>
Later tonight i will listen to this sermon but i can honestly say porn enhances my relationship, with out it my fiance would never get turned on enough to sleep with me
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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:28 PM   #4
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I don't want to listen to another person's opinion on how they feel others should conduct themselves...especially an opinion based on a set of beliefs I probably don't follow anyway.

Later...gotta get back to redtube.
That's funny because he backs up alot of the reasons it damages things with Science, Mostly Neurobiology. Not so much opinion but more "this is what Porn does to your brain". You don't have to listen to it but why even bother commenting on it if you don't want to give your wrist a brake for 45 min and listen?

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Later tonight i will listen to this sermon but i can honestly say porn enhances my relationship, with out it my fiance would never get turned on enough to sleep with me
They Cover WHY this happens. I don't want to give anything away, But it will never get better if you still use porn.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 07:54 PM   #5
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Later tonight i will listen to this sermon but i can honestly say porn enhances my relationship, with out it my fiance would never get turned on enough to sleep with me
That's sad to hear
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:04 PM   #6
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I 100% agree with your stance LC4X. It takes some balls to post this on here. I learned this the hard way and I cant say that I've heard this sermon before but I have heard the name before. It can take years to recover from a porn addiction or even light porn. It takes support and accountability from very close friends to make it through and to stay the course. I feel it's one of the most difficult things to get through in life. Most people will never realize how good life, marriage,relationships, and sexual intimacy can be until they take the steps to start recovery. Obviously this is my opinion but it's also the truth.
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The wife and I use porn for new ideas in the sack. It's great fun lol
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:18 PM   #8
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The wife and I use porn for new ideas in the sack. It's great fun lol
Its very educational porn that is
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:20 PM   #9
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I 100% agree with your stance LC4X. It takes some balls to post this on here.


Why does it take someone with balls to post that? All it takes is someone that wants to be nosy and tell others what they are doing wrong and that they know what is best for someone else even though they dont know the other people.

What might be fine for you might not be for the next person. Dont worry about what I (or the next guy) do and I wont pretend to care if you fukc goats or use porn.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:36 PM   #10
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Why does it take someone with balls to post that? All it takes is someone that wants to be nosy and tell others what they are doing wrong and that they know what is best for someone else even though they dont know the other people.

What might be fine for you might not be for the next person. Dont worry about what I (or the next guy) do and I wont pretend to care if you fukc goats or use porn.
I never once said "you should do this or burn". I was merely stating that, to people with an open mind, this sermon can help free thier marriage from the destructive force that porn IS.

You also did a great job answering your initial question with your own response. The reason it's 'brave' is because of the number of men who Are unwilling to take 45 min to listen to a sermon. It may not have an effect on your marriage but it could and I would hope that any MAN would be willing to spend 45 min to try and learn one more way to protect thier marriage.

Btw. Our brains are all pretty similar. To spoil one of his points, we develope habits and neurological pathways the exact same way. So really, in this case "what's true for one person is the exact same truth for every body else.

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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:36 PM   #11
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That's funny because he backs up alot of the reasons it damages things with Science, Mostly Neurobiology. Not so much opinion but more "this is what Porn does to your brain". You don't have to listen to it but why even bother commenting on it if you don't want to give your wrist a brake for 45 min and listen?
He's simply putting something together to present/push his beliefs onto others. His use of science isn't a PSA, it's merely used to push his agenda. He doesn't like porn.

I don't like all the kids running around looking like girls with their skinny pants and girly haircuts...but I don't say anything about it as it isn't my family nor concern.

Besides, I don't jerk off at the computer. For the most part I don't even look at e-porn all that much, it's all the same shit over and over.

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Why does it take someone with balls to post that? All it takes is someone that wants to be nosy and tell others what they are doing wrong and that they know what is best for someone else even though they dont know the other people.

What might be fine for you might not be for the next person. Dont worry about what I (or the next guy) do and I wont pretend to care if you fukc goats or use porn.
Cha-Ching!

I have my beliefs and other people have theirs. I've never seen any reason to push my preferences onto others or tell them whatever floats their boat is wrong in my eyes under the guise of a public service announcement.

I'm Catholic. I have friends that are Jewish, Atheist, Baptist and everything in between. I respect what they believe in even though it's not what I roll with, but don't push my beliefs on them. If your religion is a bottle of Jerkins and a 21" monitor with 24/7 porn then so be it.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:38 PM   #12
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i still don't understand what the big deal is. pornography is only what you want it to be. if you use it to fill a void not filled by your partner then thats your problem. sex is natural, it's obviously important to the survival of any living thing, and it should not be something we have to completely block from our minds. while i agree that some things people do are just way too far past acceptable, it is a free country and if you wanna do those kinds of things to yourself then have at it.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:42 PM   #13
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i still don't understand what the big deal is. pornography is only what you want it to be. if you use it to fill a void not filled by your partner then thats your problem. sex is natural, it's obviously important to the survival of any living thing, and it should not be something we have to completely block from our minds. while i agree that some things people do are just way too far past acceptable, it is a free country and if you wanna do those kinds of things to yourself then have at it.
By taking the time to view the clips in the link your questions would be answered. Just a thought.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:44 PM   #14
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Religion is like the government. Its a bunch of people that live in glass houses that think they can tell you how to live your life better than you can do on your own.
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Old March 12th, 2012, 08:45 PM   #15
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porn in church=less kid rape
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This thread so needs pics. Can't believe I read all that jibber jabber and didn't see any (.)(.)
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Marriage kills sex.
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By taking the time to view the clips in the link your questions would be answered. Just a thought.
Batman agrees!
Most of the questions/comments you guys have made are covered in the link I provided. It's just 45ish min.
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I'm married. It's porn or nothing.
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Batman agrees!
Most of the questions/comments you guys have made are covered in the link I provided. It's just 45ish min.
Too busy watching porn.
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