I have a 19 year old daughter that has long blonde hair, blue eyes, and is built like a brick shithouse.
Fact of the matter is that I don't care what she wears because I spent more time and effort making sure that SHE took pride in herself personally because people who are going to judge her on her looks alone are not worth the time of day.
I let her get her belly button pierced when she was 15, she just recently got a tattoo and although I did not want her to get it I just explained my reasons and made sure she understood that others may be much quicker to form a opinion on her based on it.
Truth is she is much more conservative than I could have dreamed and much more mature and self-reliant than most people of her generation by miles.
not to mention the fact that I would have to open up a garment factory because nothing on the racks fit her really anyway....