Originally Posted by kerryann
It sounds like the 8 years may have included some high school. So I am not sure that the whole getting engaged thing is a game changer. It would seem to me that he should know if that is an issue.
I would just ask if I suspected my husband was up to something, but then he usually tells me everything so I don't really have to. Asking is the easiest answer even if you don't like the answer you get.
We met in high school but went to different schools. She's a year older so was 3 hrs away in college 1 year we lived together in college for 2 years. I worked in Argentina for 6 months broke up for 2 months. Came back and got back together in 2009. Bought a house and business so money and time have been tightish. I have 2 brothers ones getting married this summer, one next summer. We have discussed marriage and agreed on where we are and an approximate timeline.