Originally Posted by Suta99
I started being suspicious on Sunday when she told me she was taking her grandma shopping and an hour after she left her grandma drove by honking and waving.
Is there a chance that instead of going shopping they drank a lot, and her grandpa was hammered and driving home?
So, she lied about grandma.
You've been with her for 8 years, and she did not mention renting an apartment.. Even if it was for a friend or family member, chances are she would have at least mentioned this large purchase.
IMO, you should ask her. Bring up the grandma story, see what she says.