Spent the evening working on this again, got the cam installed, valves adjusted and motor put back together. We did find one more issue, the freeze plug behind the cam was installed to deep. The cam was pushed up against it and rubbing. we knocked it out and FF is going to source a new plug.
I installed a Lunati VooDoo cam 213/219 @ .050 .515/.530 lift
It had a comp. 268H, 218/218 @ .050 .485/.485
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2003 F-250 4X4 7.3 PSD Crew Cab