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Old March 17th, 2012, 06:55 PM   #154
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Originally Posted by L4CX View Post
I never once said "you should do this or burn". I was merely stating that, to people with an open mind, this sermon can help free thier marriage from the destructive force that porn IS.
You are making the assumption that someones marriage is in jeopardy because both parties have made a conscience decision to use porn to spice things up. Or is the destruction one sided... As in one side watches porn and the other doesnt? If the latter is the case, its not the porn that is the problem.

Originally Posted by L4CX View Post
You also did a great job answering your initial question with your own response. The reason it's 'brave' is because of the number of men who Are unwilling to take 45 min to listen to a sermon. It may not have an effect on your marriage but it could and I would hope that any MAN would be willing to spend 45 min to try and learn one more way to protect thier marriage.
There are many forces at work trying to pull anything and everything apart. IMO, porn is the least of them. Money, jobs, kids... These are the real issues that can tear apart relationships. We do not currently have a generation or two living below poverty and on assistance because they watched porn.

Originally Posted by L4CX View Post
Btw. Our brains are all pretty similar. To spoil one of his points, we develope habits and neurological pathways the exact same way. So really, in this case "what's true for one person is the exact same truth for every body else.
Similar in process, not outcome. Your last sentence is downright scary. Hitler, Mao, Stalin had this line of thinking. THATS why some are against being preached to. To often the stance is taken "there is only one way" and most people don't like to be told what to do.
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