i still don't understand what the big deal is. pornography is only what you want it to be. if you use it to fill a void not filled by your partner then thats your problem. sex is natural, it's obviously important to the survival of any living thing, and it should not be something we have to completely block from our minds. while i agree that some things people do are just way too far past acceptable, it is a free country and if you wanna do those kinds of things to yourself then have at it.
"I don't have pet peeves, i have major psychotic fucking hatreds" -George Carlin