Originally Posted by dougstephvoor
My father is close to death, not as close as you describe above.
The one thing that we know is he did not want to be resesitated etc, as he expressed these opinions prior to becoming as ill as he is now.
Did your grandpa ever express / discuss his end of life wishes prior to becoming incapable of making these decisions? Most people have these discussions as they get older.
If so follow allong with that as it was discussed.
He did.. kinda. Both my Grandma and Grandpa wanted the same level of care. Nobody explained options, and scenarios to them, thus, the advanced directives have changed... 4 times in the past 8 weeks, It's getting frustrating. I encourage you to indepth talk to your dad, now.. figure this stuff out. Also, check out my thread in the pub about a "go bag". Good Luck to you.