Originally Posted by L4CX
Number one thing that is important to me when bringing someone to Christ is Christ. Once that person has accepted Christ they are set. The other Things (Baptism, Confession, marriage etc) are out ward signs of an Inward Relationship with Christ. If they are done just as out ward signs (with no relationship to Christ) then it's the equivalent of a person walking up on stage and doing the cha-cha Slide. It means nothing. Christianity is about the inward changing of the soul. Not the outward appearance. It's about allowing the God of the universe to do the changing inside.
So your saying the fact the only/my reasons (health insurance for her and tax credits) I contemplate marrying my girlfriend / baby mamma are going to bring me "closer" to god???? That bitch better get a job with bennies...